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Biting Your Tongue On Other Boards

Scout05Scout05 member
in TTC After a Loss

Remind me to do that, please. Because there are a couple of them that I want to explode all over.

eg. "Should you put off ttc, for an event that's happening in 9 months?" STFU, like it's that easy. Oh, I think I shall wait this month, it will surely happen just as I wish it to the month following. My kingdom to be that unaware of reality again.

Guess this is what I get for lurking. It would serve me right if she came over and yelled at me. I'll take it, promise.

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  • Seamonkey88Seamonkey88
    hehe...Id let them have it. People that oblivious need a wake-up call, but Im in that kind of mood today Devil
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  • texas77texas77 member
    yeah i struggle with this too.  i want to say something sooooo bad and sometimes i do and sometimes i don't. 
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  • momagain2009momagain2009 member

    ***Stands up and introduces self*** 

    My name is Kellie and I'm a lurkoholic.

    I do it daily and always regret it!  Sorry you had to see that.

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  • Can't Wait To Be A MamaCan't Wait To Be A Mama
    I hold my tounge often, I'm such a smart ass I doubt anyone would like what I had to say sometime.Wink
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  • PeetiePiePeetiePie

    Do not lurk....there are idiots out there. 

    Honestly, when I first thought of TTC I thought no way would I want to have a baby in July or August.  I know better now.   I would be thrilled with any baby no matter what time of the year. 

    I've known people IRL that have "planned" thier prenancies and it's worked for them.  Fan-tastic for them.  Confused 

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  • MrsDCruzMrsDCruz member

    I dont stray far.. I have a problem holding my tongue (as everyone on this board know... sorry ladies I'm bored... my job is boring, my life is boring.. IM BORED!)

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  • JacquiemarkJacquiemark

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    I here you. Sometimes it is soo hard not to say anything. I really have to hold myself back from being a total b!otch on some posts. This is why I should not lurk.

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  • ~*BREN*~~*BREN*~ member
    I just don't stray.  I end up frustrated. I'm a two board gal.  TTCAL and one of my local Nest boards.
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  • Mrs.M317Mrs.M317 member
    I say, say it.  It will make you feel better.  You don't have to be mean, but I would be honest, straightforward, and snarky.  That is a silly question, and you would be surprised how many people ask it...
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  • kimber926kimber926 member
    I answered a post like that a few days ago.  I'm MOH in my sister's destination wedding next June.  If I get KU this cycle, I won't be going.  Yeah, I'm cold hearted.  Sue me.  I'm not about to wait another month to try again. 
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  • heathergirl67heathergirl67 member

    imagekimber926:
    I answered a post like that a few days ago.  I'm MOH in my sister's destination wedding next June.  If I get KU this cycle, I won't be going.  Yeah, I'm cold hearted.  Sue me.  I'm not about to wait another month to try again. 

    I'm totally with you.  There are very few things that I'm willing to put my life on hold for.  Especially when it comes to baby-making.

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  • MarriedandlovingitMarriedandlovingit member
    imageheathergirl67:

    imagekimber926:
    I answered a post like that a few days ago.  I'm MOH in my sister's destination wedding next June.  If I get KU this cycle, I won't be going.  Yeah, I'm cold hearted.  Sue me.  I'm not about to wait another month to try again. 

    I'm totally with you.  There are very few things that I'm willing to put my life on hold for.  Especially when it comes to baby-making.

    Amen, I'm right there with you.

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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member
    imagePeetiePie:

    Do not lurk....there are idiots out there. 

    Honestly, when I first thought of TTC I thought no way would I want to have a baby in July or August.  I know better now.   I would be thrilled with any baby no matter what time of the year. 

    I've known people IRL that have "planned" thier prenancies and it's worked for them.  Fan-tastic for them.  Confused 

     I have a friend with 3 kids.  They wanted all 3 kids to be born in the same month, so they TTC 10 months previous and WHAMMO.  All three effing kids on the first month of TTC.  Born uneventfully.  No miscarriages.  Must be fvcking rough, eh?

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  • *kendrick**kendrick* member

    Eh, I chalk stuff like that up to the joy and naivety of being new to TTC. It is irritating, but understandable. And really, I do wish quick & sticky PGs for those ladies. I certainly don't wish my loss and long time line on them. That said, it can be hard for me to hold my tongue when people post incessant baby posts on non-baby boards. I just want to get away from baby talk and it just comes up again and again and again.

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