Do you think that being extremely sleep deprived affects a person's fertility or ovulation? DD has never sttn, but it has been particularly bad lately with her teething. The longest stretch of sleep I've had this week is 3 hours.?
I notice my exhaustion affecting me in many ways such as lack of appetite and feeling depressed. However, I now wonder if I might not even ovulate b/c of it..? I should have o'ed sometime between yesterday and tomorrow, but the typical signs really aren't there. I keep waiting for ewcm, but it really isn't appearing. I also usually have a major increase in my sex drive during o, but all I really care about is sleep right now. This is upsetting as it's our 3rd cycle ttc and I am majorly hoping for success this month because of due date timing w/ DH's work, if that makes any sense.
Oh, I'm also still bf'ing, which probably doesn't help my fertility, but I definitely have been having regular cycles since December, so it's not like I don't even have my period or something.?
Re: ttc question re: ovulation
Have you considered doing any kind of sleep learning to help your LO get better sleep, that would, in turn, help you and DH get better sleep? It sounds like everyone needs a little more sleep. I think once y'all start getting better sleep, things might fall a little better in to place.
I know it's frustrating not getting sleep and also trying to conceive. Good luck with all of it!
Gee, what a novel idea. Can't believe I never thought of it myself in the last 16 months! Do you really think it sounds like everyone needs more sleep? I wasn't sure about that. :-P
Did you read the part where I said we've been in teething hell? That doesn't help much with "sleep learning". ?
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Haven't tried temping yet, but I think we're getting to the point where I might go that route just to be sure. I've always been fairly certain of when I ovulate, though, and I have pretty regular cycles. This month is quite unusual in that none of my usual signs are there when they should be. I guess I'd have a better idea if I was temping. Hmm?
I definitely think that lack of sleep would affect ovulation; it seems to affect everything else in terms of health.
I have nothing to offer other than speculation. However, I too am on my third cycle and as an English teacher myself, I want it to work this month because of my job. We will stop ttc for a few months if it doesn't work this month simply because we cannot afford for me to go unpaid for the first quarter. (I get no paid leave for a summer baby and I'd hate to miss the first day of school to at least set the tone for the year with my classes.)
I tried opk's this month, and they didn't work at all. I still have not seen a positive result and it is day 15. I've never temped either. I'll start if I get af. Anyhow, god luck and if it's any consolation, I feel your pain!
We have a lot in common! We, too, will have to stop ttc for a few months if things don't work out this cycle.
I am actually a sahm now, but DH is a college marching band director and if we have a baby between August-November, he would pretty much come to the hospital for the birth and then have to go back to work. ;-) Not ideal. Marching band season is nuts for him. Today is my day 15, and I do believe I ended up o'ing yesterday. I always cramp ("middleschmertz") when I o, and I did have that for a few hours yesteray. Never did get ewcm, though. We shall see....
Hope you don't have too many papers to grade this weekend. ;-) I don't miss those days..... My master's is in reading, and when I do go back to work someday, I hope to go as a reading specialist b/c I just can't deal with the never-ending stacks and stacks of essays ever again. ;-)