We have our boy name, but are struggling to come up with our girl name. We are thinking about Abby, but not Abigail. Our oldest is Sydney and my husband really likes girls names that end in y. Is it weird for her proper name to be a nickname?
I think it would be nice to give her the formal name so that if she chooses later in life she can use it--maybe she'll think it sounds more professional, etc. You can certainly still call her Abby.
I love that name and I think it's perfectly fine to name a child w/ a nn. Abigail would have been at the top of my list but my co-irker named his dog Abby and ruined it for me....
Apparently, it's not weird for people to name their kids a lot of things, but for me, yes, I do think it's weird for someone's proper name to be a nickname. For one, it robs them of options.
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One of my good friends is Abbey, not Abigal, never thought about it.
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My name is Cassi, not Cassandra. NBD. I also have a little neighbor boy named Jake, not Jacob. People do assume that my whole name is Cassandra and at first I assumed my neighbor's full name was Jacob but it's completely up to you. If you don't like Abigail and you just like Abby, then you are under no obligation to use Abigail!
I'm pretty sure we are going to name DD Cate, not Catherine or anything else...but for some reason I think of Cate as a better stand alone name than Abby. While it is a very cute name...we wanted something that an attorney or high powered business woman could use...just as easily as a SAHM. So I would probably use Abigail.
I think it would be nice to give her the formal name so that if she chooses later in life she can use it--maybe she'll think it sounds more professional, etc. You can certainly still call her Abby.
I really like the name Abby but would suggest giving options as well so would go with Abigail. She will be forever asked if her full name is Abigail once she is an adult (and before). My parents named me Sue...that's it...no Susan, Suzanna, etc...just Sue and I hated it. I am ALWAYS telling people it is NOT a nickname for Susan. Two places I've worked have made me nametags (funny...both doctor's offices) and they had Susan on them.
I think it would be nice to give her the formal name so that if she chooses later in life she can use it--maybe she'll think it sounds more professional, etc. You can certainly still call her Abby.
I think it would be nice to give her the formal name so that if she chooses later in life she can use it--maybe she'll think it sounds more professional, etc. You can certainly still call her Abby.
This. Why not give your child more options rather than fewer?
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Re: Abby not Abigail?
I see nothing wrong with using a nickname if that's all you want your baby to be called anyway. Abby is cute and is a real name.
One of my good friends is Abbey, not Abigal, never thought about it.
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Not weird at all. Abby is a cute name!
My name is Cassi, not Cassandra. NBD. I also have a little neighbor boy named Jake, not Jacob. People do assume that my whole name is Cassandra and at first I assumed my neighbor's full name was Jacob but it's completely up to you. If you don't like Abigail and you just like Abby, then you are under no obligation to use Abigail!
If you are only going to call her Abby, I would name her Abby.
This is coming from a full-name-Elly, which is apparently a nn to most people
I agree!
My Great Great Grandmother's name was Abby. She had 8 sons. lol.
I'm the type that prefers longer names w/ a nickname, so I'd vote Abigail.
This exactly.
I really like the name Abby but would suggest giving options as well so would go with Abigail. She will be forever asked if her full name is Abigail once she is an adult (and before). My parents named me Sue...that's it...no Susan, Suzanna, etc...just Sue and I hated it. I am ALWAYS telling people it is NOT a nickname for Susan. Two places I've worked have made me nametags (funny...both doctor's offices) and they had Susan on them.
I know a girl who is Abby not Abigail...it is very pretty!
This. Why not give your child more options rather than fewer?
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