i had to change my wedding date.

EJS425 · September 2009

I am so upset - well, slightly. Our original date was June 4th, 2010 - i initially wanted it in the fall but my best friend (whos wedding i am in) is Oct 9, 2010 and FI's cousin (who is also in my wedding) is sometime in August - I felt like clustering up the fall was overwhelming for all involved.

So, I went with the spring/summer.

Now, due to FI's recent gain of a fulltime position, he will not receive vaca time until around Sept of next year - that would mean that the wedding festivities would have to take place on a potential 'day off' - - not really fair to him IMO. So, I moved the date to Sept 24.

My friend whos wedding is in Oct is now having a shitfit!! I called her to tell her and being I was already upset, you would think she wouldve been understanding, but NO! BIITCH ROYALE!! The first words out of her mouth?

"Well, I hope you didnt change it to the fall..?!" Indifferent

"Uummm, actually..."

"Well, you do realize everything will now overlap - - I hope you know that all my stuff is already booked - and my shower is the 5th of Sept - and you do realize that Kristin (another friend who is in both of our weddings) will be jammed up with helping both of us - I dont know how much I will be able to do for you since I will be planning my own."

......srsly??? I am so upset, wasnt expecting this reaction.biitch!

MrsL.inMarch · September 2009

DH's best friend got married two week before us, the world kept turning. Tell her to simmer and that she only gets one day (ahhh, knot memories).

EJS425 · September 2009

NO BIG DEAL, right??! what a drama queen.

katiekate1974 · September 2009

My BFF and I got married 2 weeks apart. We were in each other's wedding. And nothing bad happened. Tell your "Friend" to take a pill.

b15chik · September 2009

What a pain in the ass. I'll smack her for you!

jolis_petits_bijoux · September 2009

MrsL.inMarch:
DH's best friend got married two week before us, the world kept turning. Tell her to simmer and that she only gets one day (ahhh, knot memories).

This. As long as you're not getting married the same weekend, everything will be fine, and she'll have to get over it! Jeez, she needs to get over herself... there's so much more to life!

jess478 · September 2009

Wow! She really needs a reality check of what is really important, she sounds very childish. Can't call dibs on a season.

mjlx207 · September 2009

We were married 3 weeks after DH's best friend and 2 weeks after DH's cousin. And everything worked out just fine (even though best friend's wife to be thought our wedding was just going to be "exactly like theirs" ha!) If that's how she feels about it, let her feel taht way. She'll see how silly she is being.

deeanneharris · September 2009

We also got married 2 weeks after DH's best friend and there were no problems at all.

flyrsgirl1 · September 2009

Wow! It is not that big a deal for her to get all upset. She should be supportive of you. You didn't want to have to change the date. Wedding planning can bring the worst our in people.

Seriously though...rude.

minditronic · September 2009

My MOH's wedding was two weeks after mine. I was in her wedding and on my honeymoon until a few days before her wedding. Everything was fine. Sure we were both busy, but we had no problem making time for everything.

Your friend needs to grow up and realize that the world doesn't revolve around her and her wedding.

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