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Anyone here ever admit that they're bitchy wife/so

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I have to say that I am.  But this just started after DS was born.  Prior to that it was just FI, DD, and I.  We were a happy, little family.  It was easy with one child, but with two it's so much harder for me.  He does his share, but sometimes I feel like he only does those things when he needs something from me (like allowing him to go golfing on the weekends, etc.) The way I see it, I do the majority of the work throughout the week and HE gets rewarded??? So most of the time I say no to his golf and his friends just so he could stay home and be miserable with me.  I feel so guilty afterwards, but seriously...it's not fair.

 

 

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Re: Anyone here ever admit that they're bitchy wife/so

  • mickey84mickey84 member

     me - bitchy? NO, never!

    The way you (we) act is sometimes understandable, but its definetly not always fair. Apologize... and try be nice! Wink

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  • babyjoy09babyjoy09
    I would talk to him about how you feel, he might not even realize you are struggling. Just tell him what you expect from him and how he can help you etc.
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  • CalifragilisticCalifragilistic member
    I have to say that one thing I am confident in is that I am a very good and understanding wife. DH works so hard that him going golfing and spending time with his friends give both of us a great break (we arent the type to be together 24/7) but one thing that bothers me is I dont think he appreciates how understanding and laid back of a wife I am. His friends tell me it all the time but I wish they could tell him so he could realize how fuccking awesome I am LOL
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  • mommabarker09mommabarker09
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    I have to say that I am.  But this just started after DS was born.  Prior to that it was just FI, DD, and I.  We were a happy, little family.  It was easy with one child, but with two it's so much harder for me.  He does his share, but sometimes I feel like he only does those things when he needs something from me (like allowing him to go golfing on the weekends, etc.) The way I see it, I do the majority of the work throughout the week and HE gets rewarded??? So most of the time I say no to his golf and his friends just so he could stay home and be miserable with me.  I feel so guilty afterwards, but seriously...it's not fair.

     

     

    I can totally identify with this. I know that I'm being selfish in that, because FI works more than I do and when he's home does just as much as I do, a lot more than 99% of fathers. He goes out about once a week and if I do get a chance to be "rewarded" I'm still here stuck in this apartment and I'm going crazy!! So to answer your question, yes I admit that I can be bitchy when he really doesn't deserve it.

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  • BitterOldHagBitterOldHag
    yep. i tell him that all the time.  he completely understands though and tries to make it as easy as possible for me when he's home.
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  • kerivpkerivp member
    I am definitely a bitchy wife sometimes.  If I have a bad day, and then I think how easy it is for DH, it ticks me off big time. 
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