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Gender anyone told one sex and then next U/S another sex

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ok so I had my 3D ultrasound done behind everyone's back yes even hubby because my doctor said I could wait but I couldn't..any way I had it done at 16 weeks a couple days..The tech said boy and showed me his pee pee...Now this Thursday I have my big U/S with doctor and hubby...My doctor and hubby swear it is a girl because of heartbeat and some other stupid reasons...What if the ultrasound this time says girl?? I am going to be so confused because I saw a boy last time..I am so nervous that I am not going to be certain and plan for one sex and the other is born..Anyone feel the same or have similar situation?? Help
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  • Pickle123Pickle123 member
    hahaha, I think you are nervous because you are feeling guilty about going behind everyone's back.
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  • Danikat15Danikat15 member

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    hahaha, I think you are nervous because you are feeling guilty about going behind everyone's back.

    ditto this.

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  • vmm0016vmm0016
    I think at 16 weeks it might have been too early to tell but who knows.  I worry that at our 36 week u/s they will say it is a boy and we got ours done at 20 weeks.
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  • XXLAURAFXXLAURAF

    No I am not gulity...lol...I had to know because my husband and I have been fighting over boy names so I had to know if it was a boy to persuade him in the boy name section prior to him knowing the sex...haha

    I am just nervous that i will get a different reading and be totally confused bc I saw a pee pee..lol...and my baby was measuring 2 weeks ahead she said at 16 weeks.. who knows.. 

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  • amoureuxamoureux

    According to the old wives tale about the heartrate, I should be having a girl.

    We are having a boy.

    I can't believe you went behind your husband's back and got a 3D u/s done.   That was low.

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    I had to have an u/s at 16w2d and there was a very clear shot of her 3 lines of her girly parts. Nothing to even be mistaken as anything dangling.

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  • AllisonErqAllisonErq

    imagePickle123:
    hahaha, I think you are nervous because you are feeling guilty about going behind everyone's back.

    totally this.... haha.

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  • XXLAURAFXXLAURAF
    imageamoureux:

    According to the old wives tale about the heartrate, I should be having a girl.

    We are having a boy.

    I can't believe you went behind your husband's back and got a 3D u/s done.   That was low.

    not really my husband was being a jerk so I just went... I love how people can never just answer a question and have to throw their opinions in..cracks me up...I am a biotch so I guess that was low..

    o well

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  • CTri17CTri17 member
    no offense but if it does turn out to be a girl. I'd believe them and not say anything otherwise you are gonna be caught in a big mess!
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  • Cynthia7461Cynthia7461 member
    You should ask this on 3rd tri because this problem has happened to a couple of those ladies.  It also happened to one of my best friends
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    imageXXLAURAF:
    imageamoureux:

    According to the old wives tale about the heartrate, I should be having a girl.

    We are having a boy.

    I can't believe you went behind your husband's back and got a 3D u/s done.   That was low.

    not really my husband was being a jerk so I just went... I love how people can never just answer a question and have to throw their opinions in..cracks me up...I am a biotch so I guess that was low..

     

    you did put it out there. Honestly if I got an u/s done without my hubby there, he would be angry and rightfully so.

    What would you say if he happened to be the one carrying the child and did it?

    Just so you could persuade him in names for a few weeks?

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  • XXLAURAFXXLAURAF

    imageCTri17:
    no offense but if it does turn out to be a girl. I'd believe them and not say anything otherwise you are gonna be caught in a big mess!

    I know that..I just keep hearing stories of this nature and it would be annoying to plan for one sex and then find out they were wrong

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  • almabrooks86almabrooks86

    I had a "fun" ultrasound done around 15 weeks where they were 75%sure it was a boy (friend of the family who does internal ultrasounds for the hospital) and when we went for our official ultrasound almost 4 weeks later my OBGYN confirmed it was a girl. So yes, it can happen. And sometimes I still find it hard to believe and actually regret the first ultrasound because it got me worked up.

    As far as old wives tales, thats all they are. During the ultrasound where our tech measured the heartbeat (and the appointment after that) her heartbeat was at 135. OWT say that girls are always 150+.

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  • Hulahoop1234Hulahoop1234
    imageXXLAURAF:
    imageamoureux:

    According to the old wives tale about the heartrate, I should be having a girl.

    We are having a boy.

    I can't believe you went behind your husband's back and got a 3D u/s done.   That was low.

    not really my husband was being a jerk so I just went... I love how people can never just answer a question and have to throw their opinions in..cracks me up...I am a biotch so I guess that was low..

    o well

     

    Wow, grow up and get some respect for your husband.  He is the father of your child and that really was incredibly low and immature.

    Also, if your OB "swears" that you are having a girl based on OWT's, he is a quack. 

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