Would this be okay? Wedding shower advice question

Rebekah1021 · September 2009

I got an invite in the mail to a wedding shower. They enclosed a piece of paper so we can give some advice to the bride.

I'm drawing a blank. The only thing I can come up with is to go pee after having sex. This is a very good girl and her fiance is courting her, so I know they haven't had sex yet.

She's a young gal, but she's funny and witty. part of me thinks I can do it since we don't have to sign a name, but the other part of me thinks not.

FriskyPanda · September 2009

Hmm, I guess it would depend on how close you are to her. I generally think that if I have to ask, then I probably shouldn't do it.

jessicaclare · September 2009

I probably wouldn't. Are they going to read them out loud or let other people look at them? That might be embarrassing for her.

J+R · September 2009

Eh, if you don't have to put your name on it, and it is good advice (!!) I probably would! : )

r9stedt · September 2009

I'm sure you can think of something more suitable.

aprilmomtobe · September 2009

I woudn't.

When I have to do something like that, I always give this advice, "Sometimes it is ok to go to bed angry. Things can look a lot different in the morning"

Brewster · September 2009

NO! ?Think of something else like, never go to bed mad. ?I would be SO embarrassed if someone wrote that as advice to me.?

4Speedy · September 2009

Yeah, I really doubt she would feel comfortable reading that in front of Great Aunt Ethel.

Rebekah1021 · September 2009

Alrighty then. I did have my doubts.

AnnapolisLari · September 2009

The best advice I got from my friend Susan applies to both marriage and kids:

1. Pick your battles.

2. Don't make any promises that you don't intend to follow through on. (This includes threats.)

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