So here is what we are dealing with right now... It has been a long few days, and DH and I are wondering if anyone else out there has been a similar situation and how it played out. I know that every pregnancy and every baby is different, but any incite you can provide us would really be appreciated.
We're
at 33 1/2 weeks today with our first baby, a boy. We went into the hospital Wednesday night
thinking I just had a very small spotting issue, and when I got there,
I went into labor (no reason found). The medication they put
me on (procardia) slowed things down from having strong contractions
every 2 or less minutes to milder contractions 6-8 minutes apart. I
was taken off of procardia due to an allergic reaction-- the docs were
hoping to send me home on it with the hopes it would end contractions
all together. I am still having contractions at random intervals, but
nothing is progressing past every 6-8 minutes, no have I gone past 3 cm
dilated and 50% effaced (as of yesterday in the hospital). My water has not broken, and I have not lost my MP.
The doctors are saying the baby should be okay if he is born now because I had steroid shots for his lungs, but they kept saying they'd prefer he stay inside at least another week if possible (I'd like to make it to mid-October at least, but DH and I are taking it little by little). I get to stay home on a very strict bedrest until further notice. I have an ultrasound on Monday and a follow-up appointment on Tuesday.
So I guess we're wondering if anyone on here has had a similar situation and what happened? My doctors have briefed us that we could go into labor tonight or we could go as long as 40 weeks, so I know we can't really "expect" anything.
Re: Wondering what to expect (sneaking over from 3rd tri)
Congrats on your new addition-- I hope you and your son are doing well! I can only imagine the past few days you have had from what we have been dealing with here.
The doctors have no idea what caused the contractions. The only thing they really noticed is that my uterus is extremely easily agitated- I would move for 2 seconds in bed or slightly need to go to the bathroom, and the contractions would get so much stronger. They initailly thought I might have had a yeast infection or UTI, but I didn't. I have an ultrasound on Monday so if there is an abruption, I hope they see it. My doctors have told me at this point they will not stop labor because the steroid shots have been administered, and it would be worse for me and baby to stop it... so if labor starts getting serious now, he is coming!
I'm sorry you are going through this. 33 weeks is a pretty good place to be, obviously full term is best, but at 33 weeks alot of milestones have been passed and your baby has a very good chance of being born healthy with no he lasting problems. If he were to be born nog w I would expect he would need some breathing support and a feeding tube. Usually they start learning to eat at around 34 weeks. Good luck. I hope you end up not needing us, but if you do everyone here is very helpful.
Thank you so much for your support! I am so scared because everything seems so up in the air right now. I am grateful that LO will probably be okay if he comes now, but it definitely is going to be hard. I admire how strong the ladies on this board really are.
I completely understand being scared out of your mind (as I'm sure most of the ladies here do). I didn't really have a chance to be too scared before I had DS because I went in for a regular 34 week OB appt and DS was born 4 hours later. It progressed from just talking to my OB, to getting an internal, having 2 NSTs, having a contraction test, and all of a sudden nurses running in the room having me sign forms as they pushed the bed to the OR. It was "we're going to run some tests just to be safe" to "you need a c/s now, the baby will be here in less than 15 minutes". I didn't really have a chance to freak out too much because I was in shock. All of that came after! Hopefully you will be able to keep LO in even longer, but you should feel better knowing that you've gotten him to a good point and past a lot of major developmental milestones already.
I also have realized from on here, that as an ALMOST 34 weeker, DS was pretty small (just from my observation of what others on here post), only 3lbs10oz. If he was slightly bigger (4lbs) I bet he'd have spent less time in the NICU - because they wouldn't even attempt bottle feeding or much time outside of the incubator until he was OVER 4lbs.
Savannah
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"Someday we will look at our babies and know it will be worth it. If it was easy, we would not have had our babies, the babies we were meant to have." From Amy052006
Because of my reaction to procardia (after my 3rd dose, I turned into a tomato, was having some trouble breathing, and I felt like someone was sitting on my chest-- my EKG was not totally abnormal, but they think everything was out of whack because of the procardia because as soon as it was out of my system, I was okay), they were afraid to put me on brethine.
I really can't thank you ladies enough for sharing your stories and offering your support. It really helps to know that things will probably be okay even if it is a huge challenge.