TTC After a Loss

OB called last night

He sees my name on his Sat schedule and he knows me very well, Im the girl who lost 4 babies, so he asks me whats going on.  I tell him the whole story about my low betas and they are not doubling, and how my RE is out of state,  and I went to ER and they ruled out ectopic.  He said there is no way it can be ruled out because my numbers are so low, nothing would show up on the US screen.  So now Im freaked out about an EP again.

He said he was going to get all my labs and study them further.  Oh and they went up again but didn't double.  I was 158 on Wed and 228 this morning.  Ugh, I just want a straight answer so I can deal with this whole thing mentally.  I guess this is what we signed up for TTC huh?  Sorry if you guys are tired of hearing about me ramble about this whole situation, I just can't vent to friends IRL, they don't understand.  Thanks for letting me vent. 

Re: OB called last night

  • Oh it has to suck not to know one way or the other. I definitely have my fingers crossed that you will get good news!

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  • It sounds like your OB is great and is doing all  the right things/taking your concerns seriously.  I hope so much that you get good news.  Please keep us posted.
  • Don't be sorry about venting - we're all here to listen.  You're right, IRL people don't get it.  (((Hugs)))
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  • I am SO glad that your OB got back to you and is looking into things. Please don't feel bad talking about it! I'm sure I'm not alone in wanting to hear about your updates and what's happening.
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  • I am so sorry that you have to go through this again.  I hope you can get some answers at your appointment. 
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  • imagepriya&peter:
    It sounds like your OB is great and is doing all  the right things/taking your concerns seriously.  I hope so much that you get good news.  Please keep us posted.

    He is seriously the BEST OB i have ever had.  He is wonderful, compassionate, and understanding.  Just love him (not in a romantic way =))

  • imagelil_rhody:
    I am SO glad that your OB got back to you and is looking into things. Please don't feel bad talking about it! I'm sure I'm not alone in wanting to hear about your updates and what's happening.

    Thanks hun, that makes me feel better.

  • I'm sorry this is so stressful. Sounds like your OB is great to have called you directly, and I hope you get good news.

    keep us posted.

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • Your OB is a keeper!! Please give us an update tomorrow about the outcome of your appointment. GL!!!
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  • imagelil_rhody:
    I am SO glad that your OB got back to you and is looking into things. Please don't feel bad talking about it! I'm sure I'm not alone in wanting to hear about your updates and what's happening.

    Agreed! I want to hear all about you. You've been on my mind a lot.

    5/17/09 incomplete m/c at 7 w 4 d. D&C 5/21/09 BFP #2- 8/9/09 Beta #1: 65 Beta #2: 30. CP 8/16 4 w 2 d BFP #3- 9/9/09 Please let the third time be the charm! First u/s 7w2d hb 150 bpm. Go baby! EDD 5/23/10 DD born 6/3/10 6 lbs, 14 oz; 20 1/2 inches Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BFP 11/4/2011 11 DPO. 1st u/s 12/7/11 Strong heartbeat, baby measuring two days ahead. Pregnancy Ticker
  • This is the place for venting!  Vent away!

    I hope that your OB can give you some insight soon.  Sounds like he's on the case, so that's good.

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  • I am so very sorry you are having to go through all this. I'm glad you have a good doc looking out for you.
    Mommy to Alden, born May 19, 2007 - best birthday present ever! natural m/c October 20, 2008 at 8w1d BFP April 4, 2009! Missed m/c discovered May 1, 2009 D&C May 12,2009 BFP March 3, 2010 Chemical pregnancy BFP May 25, 2010 Elias Derek born January 26, 2011! Surprise BFP October 24, 2012 Missed m/c confirmed Nov 26 D&C Nov 30 Surprise BFP February 13, 2013
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