Pregnant after a Loss

I was a good wife this morning

DH finally got some. Poor kid was about to die since it had been 4 weeks so hopefully that will hold him off for another 4 weeks since sex makes me nervous about spotting and a m/c.
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Re: I was a good wife this morning

  • I bet he was happy!

    Dh and I held out until we made it to the 2nd trimester. We felt better waiting just to make sure that we weren't the cause. Which it sounds silly, but when we waited (the only thing we did different) we had a sticky baby! The other times we didn't stop and lost three babies...it was time for a change. I'm not sure if that's what was causing it (doctor doesn't know either) but we didn't want to lose a 4th!

    Congrats!!!!

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  • Let's just say that you're a better wife than I am!  We are waiting until after the first tri. We are both scared of seeing the spotting, especially since I'm on prometrium, which can cause it.  I'd totally freak out!
  • Aww! I'm sure my DH is getting antsy, though he's not letting on that it's bothering him. It's been 3 or 4 weeks since we've done it. Everytime I ask if he wants to though he says he's afraid it'll hurt the baby. I guess then I'm just relieved because I don't feel like it anyway! :(
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  • Good for you!

    I was on pelvic rest for the 1st trimester and now that we have the ok, we're both still a little too nervous about it. Hopefully soon!

    BFP #1 6/21/08 natural m/c 7/4/08 BFP #2 10/3/08 blighted ovum discovered 11/5/08 D&C 11/13/08 dx with hetero MTHFR 1/7/09 BFP #3 7/1/09 DS born 3/7/10 BFP #4 1/27/10 DD born 9/4/11 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Don't feel bad, I've put out once since the BFP.
  • I feel bad for my DH. He didn't have any from 16-29 weeks due to the previa and then a YI. Even since it's only been like 1x. Embarrassed
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