I'm a bitter biotch

Addykins · September 2009

We are friends with this couple who got married last year. There are our "go to" couple. We do couple-type things with them. He's in his mid 20s and she's 23. They do NOT want kids. I know she was opposed to it, but he certainly did not and was adamant about it.

I just found out on FB she's pregnant.

This in turn upset me <enter tears>. I called DH to tell him about it. After a minute he said, "I know you're upset and all but I don't know why. It's not like you can change anything, there's no reason to get upset."

I hung up on him.

yogisunam · September 2009

I have a swift kick waiting for Mr Addy.

How's your cycle going?

Addykins · September 2009

Still suppressing. AF was supposed to come today. Like last month a whole lotta build but then nada. It'll start tomorrow hopefully.

MandyBrownNoser · September 2009

Get his sample and then kick him in the balls.

beatrice606 · September 2009

I fuucking hate men.

RachelG83 · September 2009

I'll join team kick-him-in-the-balls. Finding out on FB is the WORST but at the same time I'd almost rather find out there so I can cry without anyone seeing me.

gidge · September 2009

I would love to understand what men are thinking sometimes.

Sorry your DH is being and a$$hat.

pmarie33 · September 2009

It's funny how they don't "get it" until after they are hung up on.

staycee · September 2009

Men just don't get it, AND they say stupid ass things.

Hang in there.

Addykins · September 2009

Oh no because then it turned into, "Well our dx is MFI so this is all my fault, how do you think this makes me feel?" etc.

I've explained to him over and over I do not blame him, I don't see it as either of us. It's just a hurdle we both have to jump but he's in deep with the guilt.

Addykins · September 2009

He also said we should be happy for them because we want people to be happy for us when it happens... Indifferent

gidge · September 2009

Yikes - he was really on his game tonight Huh?

Matsifloxacin · September 2009

Simple solution. You can meet up with me when I visit.

staycee · September 2009

Addykins:

Oh no because then it turned into, "Well our dx is MFI so this is all my fault, how do you think this makes me feel?" etc.

our dx was MFI also. For a full year we thought that was the problem. Then I had that lap and turns out I was part of the problem too. Good thing we had the thought all along that it was "our" problem together.

XXXXX222 · September 2009

Oh Addy, I'm sorry.

*hugs*

LTF525 · September 2009

((hugs)) I'm sorry your "couple" friends are KU and the Mr. Addy was being an a$$. Men are big dumb animals sometimes. They can't help themselves.

Addykins · September 2009

Matsifloxacin:
Simple solution. You can meet up with me when I visit.

Yes Yes

Serendipitie · September 2009

yogisunam:
I have a swift kick waiting for Mr Addy.

This. Husbands suck

Mainer-in-Texas · September 2009

I would feel the same way. Men don't get it sometimes.

mb~zf · September 2009

Mine was like that in the beginning too. Then he started taking it personally as well. I remember him coming tothe point where he said he dreaded answering his phone from college friends because he hated getting the news.

MFI sucks donkey balls. We can joke about it now, but not when we found out.