We really need groceries, and I'd really love to get out of the house, so I'm considering making a quick trip to the store this afternoon (as opposed to having my Mom or DH do it). But I'm freaking out a bit at the idea of leaving him, although I figure it has to happen sometime.
Just don't know if I can do it today.
So, how old was your LO when you first went out without him/her?
Re: when did you first leave LO?
I left him to run to drop something off at my drs office. It was a quick trip and I left him with DH. A few days after birth...I was gone for less than 30 minutes.
I also went to get a flu shot and left DS with my mom for 30 min or so.
3 days old. DD was born on Nov 1st last year and i went to go vote on the 4th
It was less than an hour, though.
I've only left him with DH twice for a few hrs. Other than that, DH and I haven't left him to go on a date, so I'm crazy like schmoodle.
This weekend I am going to leave him with someone other than DH for the FIRST time.
"When it comes to sleeping, whatever your baby does is normal. If one thing has damaged parents enjoyment of their babies, it's rigid expectations about how and when the baby should sleep." ~ James McKenna, Ph.D., Mother Baby Behavioral Sleep Center, University of Notre Dame
Apparently I'm a horrible mother. I went to run several errands for like 2 1/2 hours at 2 weeks and didn't feel bad at all- MH is awesome with the babies & I hadn't run an errand and had barely even driven a car in 14 weeks and it was great to feel like a normal person for a couple hours.
And, I went out of town for 2 nights this weekend & they were only 4 weeks old so I guess that really takes the cake for bad parenting. However, I was visiting my father who is hospitalized with a very aggressive leukemia and MH, my in laws & my brother & his wife were all here with the twins so I knew they were in good hands. It wasn't like going OOT for something fun I guess though.