1st Trimester

Vent: DH is so mad at me...

So, yesterday we went over to my friends house and she starts clearing out her garage and loading up our truck with all this baby stuff she wanted to give us.  I say to her, looks like I'll need to get rid of my spare bedroom set soon!  She says, OMG, my nephew really needs a new bed, can he have it.  So, I say sure... and as soon as the words come out of my mouth, I realize I should have asked DH if was ok with that.  Well, we get back into the car and he just lays into me about it.  I guess he really wanted to keep it.  He was so mean to me all night, wouldn't talk to me, didn't say goodbye to me this morning, it's been awful.  I sent an email to my friend who wanted it explaining that we weren't ready to give the set away and I apologized for opening my big mouth too soon about it.  I also sent an email to DH apologizing to him about the situation and admitted I was wrong in offering the bed like that.  No on has responded to me, now I feel like everyone is mad at me.  Sorry... just had to vent, thanks for listening.

Re: Vent: DH is so mad at me...

  • Aww, I do stuff like that all the time.I just love helping people, so I always offer up stuff I shouldn't.

    DH will cool down and I'm positive your friend will understand.  Maybe you could cook your DH his favorite meal and smooth things over?

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  • Don't be too hard on yourself. It was an honest slip of the tongue...and it seems like an easy fix, which you already took care of! It sounds like your DH may have overreacted a little? 
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  • Sounds like something I'd do!  I think you did the right thing by apologizing... it's not a huge deal and I'm sure it will all blow over.

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  • I'm so sorry!  I'm sure that everyones not mad at you!! :-)  Isn't it funny how husbands and wives argue over crazy things? lol!  My DH and I do it all the time.  It will blow over!! :-)
  • It seems like a big deal now, but in the grand scheme of things it won't be. DH is overreacting, and you apologized. Leave him alone and let him get over it. You when we say FINE, but it isn't? He probably feels like he overreacted but would lose his man card if he admitted to it, so he has to be all guy like and act mad for a little while longer. It will blow over. You always have us at the bump!!
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  • Aw! Don't be so hard on yourself!  We all do stuff like that from time to time...and I'm sure your husband even has!  He will cool down and everything will be a okay!

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  • Try not to be so hard on yourself.  I hate in when DH over react, it was not that big of a deal and hopefully he has cooled off by the time he comes home.  Also, your friend should realize that DH wants to keep it and should not have any hard feelings, GOOD LUCK
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  • my fiance gets mad at me about stuff like that all time. if i dont talk to him about something before i make a decision or if i forget something (like my cell phone). he always gets over it even though sometimes it takes a while. i think it seems worse now that im pregnant just because everything seems so dramatic and everything makes me cry like a baby.
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  • Thank you for all your great comments, I feel much better.  I'm sure it will blow over, it was an honest mistake.  Maybe I'll get home before him and clean up the house and make him a nice dinner as I wave my white flag Smile
  • Why didn't he speak up then and say "actually I really wanted to use it for X?"
  • imagelindseystenlund:
    Thank you for all your great comments, I feel much better.  I'm sure it will blow over, it was an honest mistake.  Maybe I'll get home before him and clean up the house and make him a nice dinner as I wave my white flag Smile

     

    I would never make my husband dinner and clean the house for him overreacting and being a drama king.  You made a mistake, you fixed it, and apologized for it.  He should apologize for making a big deal about it.

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