So, yesterday we went over to my friends house and she starts clearing out her garage and loading up our truck with all this baby stuff she wanted to give us. I say to her, looks like I'll need to get rid of my spare bedroom set soon! She says, OMG, my nephew really needs a new bed, can he have it. So, I say sure... and as soon as the words come out of my mouth, I realize I should have asked DH if was ok with that. Well, we get back into the car and he just lays into me about it. I guess he really wanted to keep it. He was so mean to me all night, wouldn't talk to me, didn't say goodbye to me this morning, it's been awful. I sent an email to my friend who wanted it explaining that we weren't ready to give the set away and I apologized for opening my big mouth too soon about it. I also sent an email to DH apologizing to him about the situation and admitted I was wrong in offering the bed like that. No on has responded to me, now I feel like everyone is mad at me. Sorry... just had to vent, thanks for listening.
Re: Vent: DH is so mad at me...
Aww, I do stuff like that all the time.I just love helping people, so I always offer up stuff I shouldn't.
DH will cool down and I'm positive your friend will understand. Maybe you could cook your DH his favorite meal and smooth things over?
Sounds like something I'd do! I think you did the right thing by apologizing... it's not a huge deal and I'm sure it will all blow over.
We had 2 years of IF trying to conceive #2 and one loss during that time. We are currently trying for #3! had another loss the end of June
I would never make my husband dinner and clean the house for him overreacting and being a drama king. You made a mistake, you fixed it, and apologized for it. He should apologize for making a big deal about it.