oh for crying out loud

cajuncutie0169 · September 2009

elisa just bc YOU got cheated on doesn't mean everyone else is going to. jesus christ.

Traycee1242 · September 2009

Yes

Elisa312 · September 2009

for crying out loud. stay on your own board.

seriously, I know. it was an ex bf and I hated having sex with him. I'm just saying men like sex. and of they go long enough without it from one person, they go elsewhere to find it.

Jimsgirl5821 · September 2009

did I miss something?

Traycee1242 · September 2009

Elisa312:

for crying out loud. stay on your own board.

seriously, I know. it was an ex bf and I hated having sex with him. I'm just saying men like sex. and of they go long enough without it from one person, they go elsewhere to find it.

This is where the problem lies... the generalization that you use the word MEN

cedens · September 2009

literally LOL with that phrase usage- made my night actually (as sad as that is) Yes

ceg2483 · September 2009

Elisa312:
for crying out loud. stay on your own board.

seriously, I know. it was an ex bf and I hated having sex with him. I'm just saying men like sex. and of they go long enough without it from one person, they go elsewhere to find it.

For reals?

That excuse may hold some water for boys when they're teenagers.... Yes, men like sex. But it's just sex. God gave them a right hand for a reason.

If you are still connecting with your SO, talking with them, and generally have solid relationship with them, it can weather not having sex. Not having sex may be a symptom of a larger problem, but it does not "make" a person cheat.

babyjoy09 · September 2009

Traycee1242:
This is where the problem lies... the generalization that you use the word MEN

This! That you think ALL men will cheat if they don't get sex form their partners! Wrongo bongo

MrsL.inMarch · September 2009

Elisa is annoying tonight.

Elisa312 · September 2009

ceg2483:
Elisa312:

for crying out loud. stay on your own board.

seriously, I know. it was an ex bf and I hated having sex with him. I'm just saying men like sex. and of they go long enough without it from one person, they go elsewhere to find it.

For reals?

That excuse may hold some water for boys when they're teenagers.... Yes, men like sex. But it's just sex. God gave them a right hand for a reason.

If you are still connecting with your SO, talking with them, and generally have solid relationship with them, it can weather not having sex. Not having sex may be a symptom of a larger problem, but it does not "make" a person cheat.

You're right. This is phrased much better. Two committed people can weather a storm.

ljlkm · September 2009

ceg2483:
God gave them a right hand for a reason.

Yes

Shellbelle22 · September 2009

ceg2483:
Elisa312:
for crying out loud. stay on your own board.

seriously, I know. it was an ex bf and I hated having sex with him. I'm just saying men like sex. and of they go long enough without it from one person, they go elsewhere to find it.
For reals?
That excuse may hold some water for boys when they're teenagers.... Yes, men like sex. But it's just sex. God gave them a right hand for a reason.
If you are still connecting with your SO, talking with them, and generally have solid relationship with them, it can weather not having sex. Not having sex may be a symptom of a larger problem, but it does not "make" a person cheat.

Yes, that's kind of the point. That would be part of looking elsewhere to fulfill sexual needs. It doesn't always mean cheating, it can also mean porn or masturbating. It becomes more of an issue when women purposefully withhold sex-something the OP in the other thread is not doing. This concept is explained well in Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage by Mark Gungor.

Edited because that could be horrible misconstrued: I mean women purposefully withholding sex out of spite.

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