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Confused! Need help!

So, I am about a week late... but since it has only been a few months since I have come off the patch.. probably not a huge surprise. I tested last Thursday, and got a BFN. Not a surprise. Well, as of this morning, still didn't have AF, so first thing, I woke up and POAS again. I wiped, and saw some blood.. and I thought "great, AF must  be on her way, there is a waste of a stick." But then I looked down after a minute, and there it was, a BFP. I am not sure what to think now!? Any thoughts?I am still new to all of this.  I don't have any more sticks with me as I am on vacation, heading home today. Should I just wait and POAS tomorrow morning? What should I be thinking?

 TIA!

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Re: Confused! Need help!

  • Well, if you're still bleeding, like AF-style, it *could* mean a chemical pg.  Or, if it was just spotting, then that's pretty normal and it *could* mean nothing. 

    Instead of using another stick, I'd just call your dr. tomorrow.  False positives are pretty rare from what I've heard, so....congrats!  Smile

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  • What color was the blood?  If it was brown it could have been implantation bleeding. If it was red it may be a chemical pg but you can't rule anything out just yet.  Call your dr and ask to be seen and if they can do a beta. But for now you're pg. Congrautlations! 
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  • congrats!

    call your doctor tomorrow to get in for blood test! if you feel the need, stop for more sticks today and poas in morning! i know for me that made it that much more real.

    as for the spotting, i was spotting when i got my bfp. it could mean anything but until you know for sure, stay positive!!!! i hope this is your sticky baby!!!!!?

  • Too many possibilites, call your dr and let them sort it out. Best of luck!
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  • I had this happen to me exactly. POAS, see blood, think wasted stick, see BFP.  Unfortunately, mine ended up being a chemical as I got full on AF the next day.  At the time, I googled this to death and found out that spotting/light bleeding can be normal in early pregnancy.  Good luck!!  I hope yours is a BFP!!
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  • I hope this is your bfp, but I would test again in the morning and call your dr. and let them know what's going on.
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  • I agree with the other ladies.  Call your doc tomorrow, but be happy for the BFP!!!  Yay!
  • Thanks everyone! No, spotting at all since the little bit yesterday morning. Did another test again last night... because I like to be reassured, and as you guys said.. a BFP! Yay! I am staying hopeful! Thanks everyone for their input, it was very helpful since I didn't know what to think! Now time to make that Dr's appointment!
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  • Well, I made an appointment. Now I have to wait until September 30th to go to the doctor for an ultrasound to see if it is a viable pregnancy. I have to wait!? I stink at waiting! *sigh* Keeping my fingers crossed! :)
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  • Congrats on your BFP and I hope the waiting won't be too bad!  :)
  • Congrats!  I hope the wait goes fast for you.
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