stupid stick.....still said bfn........w/no sign of AF coming......I'm now 13-15dpo, (leaning toward 13 bc AF should be here if it were 15).......and now worried that something may be wrong that dh and I haven't gotten ku yet and it's been 3 cycles of ttc plus 2 cycle before that we stopped tta......in the past I got ku right away......so w/ the wonky cycles and no bfp I'm starting to think maybe something else is going on. Assuming this cycle is now officially a bust, I'm really bummed....
I completely understand where you are at. It sucks. We have always gotten pg the first month trying and now its been 4 cycles and bfn's... It really sucks... I went to see my dr the other day and she thinks that I may not have been O'ing the last couple months..
Its insult to injury isnt it? We lose a baby then cant get pg. I just wanted to let you know that I know how you feel! (((hugs)))
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I completely understand where you are at. It sucks. We have always gotten pg the first month trying and now its been 4 cycles and bfn's... It really sucks... I went to see my dr the other day and she thinks that I may not have been O'ing the last couple months..
Its insult to injury isnt it? We lose a baby then cant get pg. I just wanted to let you know that I know how you feel! (((hugs)))
This is what I'm afraid of. I was worried that I'm not O'ing, bc even the months that we weren't tta, I should've had a good chance of being ku. Even though I didn't watch my cm, calculating back the days in my cycle, we still had good timing. For the past 2 cycles, I KNOW I've watched my cm and calculated my cycles and should've been ku.......so I'm really getting scared now....and w/dh's insurance changing over, I may not get to ttc again until Jan, on top of not gettin gto know if there's something else wrong b/c of the insurace switch......Guess we'll see if AF shows in a few days.....I'm trying to not focus on it much, but it's ALL I can think about right now. I'm hoping I get a bfp in a few days and make all this seem like nonsense, but I know logically it's looking dim.....guess we'll have to wait and see........
I wouldn't start worrying yet. It is typical for your cycles to be a bit messed up after a m/c, or, really, not messed up, but just different than prior to m/c. 3 real cycles of TTC is really not that much. I know it's hard, and frustrating, but hang in there! You don't have AF yet, so there is still hope!
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I know it's not that long to be trying, but I still worry.
I know it's also intensified b/c sooooo many of my friends are ku or currently trying to get ku or just delivered babies......literally---almost ALL of my friends! Friend #9 announced this morning on fb........and I expect another friend to announce hers anyday now.......
I WANT TO ANNOUNCE MINE!!! :::I say in a tantrumy voice while making a pouty face and stomping my feet::::
dude, i'm sorry. bfn's have a way of killing our joy. try not to get too discouraged. we have been ttc for 2 yrs with one m/c in there.
do you chart? unless you do there is no way to really know how many dpo you are. its possible that you O'd later. if you aren't charting maybe now is a good time to start. if you are charting then i'm going to stfu. lol.
either way, sorry for the stupid stupid sucky ass bfn.
Just because you're not pregnant in 3 months doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, man.
Seriously, even with well-timed intercourse, sometimes it takes awhile. And awhile could be 3 months, 6 months, or a year or longer. I got pregnant *ON THE PILL* with my daughter so I thought it'd be really fast to TTC again. It took 6 months to conceive my son. There wasn't anything wrong with me, it just took longer.
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I completely understand where you are at. It sucks. We have always gotten pg the first month trying and now its been 4 cycles and bfn's... It really sucks... I went to see my dr the other day and she thinks that I may not have been O'ing the last couple months..
Its insult to injury isnt it? We lose a baby then cant get pg. I just wanted to let you know that I know how you feel! (((hugs)))
This is what I'm afraid of. I was worried that I'm not O'ing, bc even the months that we weren't tta, I should've had a good chance of being ku. Even though I didn't watch my cm, calculating back the days in my cycle, we still had good timing. For the past 2 cycles, I KNOW I've watched my cm and calculated my cycles and should've been ku.......so I'm really getting scared now....and w/dh's insurance changing over, I may not get to ttc again until Jan, on top of not gettin gto know if there's something else wrong b/c of the insurace switch......Guess we'll see if AF shows in a few days.....I'm trying to not focus on it much, but it's ALL I can think about right now. I'm hoping I get a bfp in a few days and make all this seem like nonsense, but I know logically it's looking dim.....guess we'll have to wait and see........
Thanks, ACM.....
I know it's not that long to be trying, but I still worry.
I know it's also intensified b/c sooooo many of my friends are ku or currently trying to get ku or just delivered babies......literally---almost ALL of my friends! Friend #9 announced this morning on fb........and I expect another friend to announce hers anyday now.......
I WANT TO ANNOUNCE MINE!!! :::I say in a tantrumy voice while making a pouty face and stomping my feet::::
dude, i'm sorry. bfn's have a way of killing our joy. try not to get too discouraged. we have been ttc for 2 yrs with one m/c in there.
do you chart? unless you do there is no way to really know how many dpo you are. its possible that you O'd later. if you aren't charting maybe now is a good time to start. if you are charting then i'm going to stfu. lol.
either way, sorry for the stupid stupid sucky ass bfn.
Just because you're not pregnant in 3 months doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, man.
Seriously, even with well-timed intercourse, sometimes it takes awhile. And awhile could be 3 months, 6 months, or a year or longer. I got pregnant *ON THE PILL* with my daughter so I thought it'd be really fast to TTC again. It took 6 months to conceive my son. There wasn't anything wrong with me, it just took longer.
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