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TTC After a Loss
mindyschaller
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Lets make a TTCAL list...
mindyschaller
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Things we all worry about.. Go!
- weather we're ever going to get our sticky forever baby.
- If we'll ever get to be blissfully pregnant and not worry about every twinge
- once we get our BFP, will we ever be able to go to the bathroom without checking to see blood.
what do you want to add?
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Re: Lets make a TTCAL list...
~ whether or not my hubs will have sex with me enough to get pg.
This for sure.
This is so right on.
~ If I can ever get over the bitterness that this process has given me.
Oh, I have a few more
~ If I'll be pushed into a C-section because of the Lovenox and having to be induced.
~ If I'll ever be able to have the big family I'd always dreamed of.
-If I'll actually have more than one kid. But hey, beggers can't be choosers, right?
-If I'll carry to full term.
-If I end up with having to have my last ovary and ute taken out at such an early age.
-To adopt.
-That my DH gives up on this before I'm ready to.
Worrying about exactly when I'm O'ing....if I'm O'ing. Ugh.
And worrying about POAS'ing. Everytime I take a HPT and it's neg, digging it out of the trash every few hours to see if a faint line shows up!
10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!
? The world thought I had it all, but I was waiting for you. ?
Labor Buddy to Megjr8
Oh, thank God other people do that too. I thought I was nuts.
This!
will my body ever be "normal"?
when I finally do get my forever baby, will it be healthy after all the things I've done to get pg in the first place?
If I have to adopt or use a surrogate, will I be able to bond with the child in the same way?
Will I ever get excited over a BFP again?
This
Yep. Which is exactly why DH scolds me when I test early. He will never understand...
10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!
? The world thought I had it all, but I was waiting for you. ?
Labor Buddy to Megjr8
Am I running out of time on my biological clock?
if i'll carry to full term
if I will ever get to start or have a family
DH will not adopt or do any treatments
when to give up trying conventionally and move onto to other things ~~ IVF, adoption?
Dh will start to feel like sex is a chore.
If I"ll ever want to tell anyone I've got a BFP until there is a baby to take home.
The fine line between taking care of myself, trying to lose weight and just being healthy with a hopeful, healthy PG around the corner.
What if, God forbid, it turns out I can't have children? Will I ever be able to make peace with that and be happy with my life?
What if it turns out there is something biologically wrong with me? Am I keeping DH from being the father he should be?
Adding to that: Will he resent me, if that is the case? Would I resent him, if he was the one with the issue?
6 Sept 2009 - natural miscarriage at 9 weeks
Will I ever be able to see a woman at the stage of pregnancy I should be, or a child that is the same age as mine should be, and be happy for them, without thinking about the what ifs?
Once I do have my sticky baby (or babies), will I still feel the losses as acutely as I do now?
What if I don't?
6 Sept 2009 - natural miscarriage at 9 weeks
Will i ever get to hear the words "its a boy or its a girl"?
Will i ever get to hear that first beautiful cry?
This. And everything else you all have said. Especially the part about other people not understanding what it is like to go through a pregnancy loss....