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hi ladies... Advice needed...

colettemarie18colettemarie18
in TTC After a Loss

Hi ladies, well I'm MCing again.... no doc to say yes but its alot of blood & clots and I'm not stupid. but here is my issue... I'm so worried my doc is just going to say keep trying... but I'm so scared of it happening again.... DH and i are newlyweds so i'm thinking we go on the honeymoon we never had and just tta for a little while... but i'm so freaked out... I always wanted to be a mommy but I'm afraid that my body wont let me... I will ask about genetic testing for the 2 of us ( DH & I ) and if my doc says no i guess i will go to a doc that i had his kid in pre-k he's constantly asking me to come in so we can talk about ttc and such, maybe it will be worth it...?

well to make matters worse my MIL & grandma in law & nana in law are on their way to my house... i guess its good we never mentioned anything.... but any advice ladies? ?

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sorry this was such a ramble...?

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Re: hi ladies... Advice needed...

  • PeetiePiePeetiePie

    I'm so sorry you're going through this again.  I would recommend asking about testing.  My doc ordered some bloodwork for me and one of the tests came back positive.  I need to go again in 5 weeks, but at least it is a start to find out what's wrong (if anything). 

    If you haven't told anyone about the losses, you might find it helps to have a few close relatives/friends who know. 

    Oh, and go on a honeymoon for sure!  Big Smile

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  • lil_rhodylil_rhody member
    I'm so sorry about your losses. You should definitely ask around of your doctor doesn't want to do testing. Good luck!
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  • Becka1208Becka1208 member

    imagelil_rhody:
    I'm so sorry about your losses. You should definitely ask around of your doctor doesn't want to do testing. Good luck!

    This. GL! and I'm very sorry for your loss. 

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  • Kelly0615Kelly0615

    I am really sorry for your loss. I say go ahead and get tested. I felt like it was necessary after 2 m/c's and I'm glad I did it.

    GL with everything and keep us posted! Oh and definitely do the honeymoon!

    02/08 BFP resulted in m/c 4/10/08 (11 weeks)
    10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
    03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
    3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
    10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!

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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member
    I'm so sorry. Speedy healing vibes your way.
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    I'm so sorry you are going through this. I think going away with your DH is a wonderful idea. You need each other right now. Sending you good thoughts.
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  • GrayhouseGrayhouse
    imageKelly0615:

    I am really sorry for your loss. I say go ahead and get tested. I felt like it was necessary after 2 m/c's and I'm glad I did it.

    GL with everything and keep us posted! Oh and definitely do the honeymoon!

    I agree. I'm so sorry for your losses.

    5/17/09 incomplete m/c at 7 w 4 d. D&C 5/21/09 BFP #2- 8/9/09 Beta #1: 65 Beta #2: 30. CP 8/16 4 w 2 d BFP #3- 9/9/09 Please let the third time be the charm! First u/s 7w2d hb 150 bpm. Go baby! EDD 5/23/10 DD born 6/3/10 6 lbs, 14 oz; 20 1/2 inches Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BFP 11/4/2011 11 DPO. 1st u/s 12/7/11 Strong heartbeat, baby measuring two days ahead. Pregnancy Ticker
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  • candycane3tcandycane3t
    Oh no I am so sorry Colette, I would take some time away on a honeymoon sounds great.  I would not ask your doc but tell him firmly you want testing done.  As you know already we are all here for you.  HUGS
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  • scooter999scooter999 member

    imagelil_rhody:
    I'm so sorry about your losses. You should definitely ask around of your doctor doesn't want to do testing. Good luck!

    This! AND dont lose hope yet! I have just had my 2nd m/c and I am more positive and more determined to make it happen now! I know a lot of people that had 3 or 4 m/c before having a successful pregnancy. My OB had 4 m/c (lost 5 babies...one pg was twins) and they never found anything wrong with her. Now she has 2 children. Dont lost hope!

    There should be some basic blood testing they will be willing to do after a 2nd loss....but dont expect heavy duty testing until you have a 3rd!

    And definitely go on a honeymoon. The more you stress the less likely you will be to get PG again... and you deserve to relax and enjoy eachother!

    BFP#1 2/5/09...EDD 10/13/09...m/c 2/11/2009 BFP#2 7/15/09...EDD 03/27/10...Missed m/c on 08/27/09 BFP#3 on 10/29/2009...EDD 7/13/10 Bennett 07/12/10 9 pounds 4oz and 19 1/2 inches BFP#4 11/02/10...EDD 07/16/11 Elise 06/29/11 8 pounds 8oz 20 1/2 inches 2u2 for an entire year!!! WOWZA Forever buddy to Leah11599 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • colettemarie18colettemarie18
    Thank you ladies =) I'm going to insist on some sort of testing.... =( doc apt is wednesday... hopefully i will be better by then...thanks for all the support girls =)
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