I am currently in the process of registering/updating my list. Let me know what you love! And let me know what you didnt end up needing!
Thanks!!
BFP #1 4/6/09; EDD 12/6/09; miscarriage 4/10/09..............BFP #2 5/3/09; DD born 1/9/10........BFP #3 12/15/12, EDD 8/31/13; baby stopped growing at 5w3d; natural miscarriage..........BFP #4 2/8/13, EDD 10/20/13; missed miscarriage discovered 9w2d; d/c.......BFP #5 10/22/13, EDD 7/8/13; miscarriage 10/28/13..... BFP #6 11/19/13; DS born 7/29/14
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Re: Things you registered for that you didnt need
I don't really use my sterlizer
DD #1 passed away in January 2011 at 14 days old due to congenital heart disease
DD#2 lost in January 2012 at 23 weeks due to anhydramnios caused by a placental abruption
you don't like onesies??? whoa.....LO lives in them! I put him in "real clothes" when we go out and changing diapers is such a challenge. Also, putting him in "real clothes" makes him look older and it makes mommy sad. lol! So I think onesies are more for mommy's sense of security...haha
what type of thermometer do you use? My mom suggested the forehead one.
Whats a bundleme?
The most useless thing I got was a wipe warmer, we've plugged it in once I think. I also got a sling for wearing the baby but she hated it. I'm hoping my next baby likes it.
Some of it really will depend on the baby, what is great for one might not be so great for another.
So many things are just personal preference. Some peeps cant live without their sterilizers, wipe, and bottle warmers, diaper champs/genies, ect...others feel they are useless. My advice is register for what you think you may need, keep all your gift reciepts, and only open and prepare the bare minimum before the baby arrives. You hate to open and wash a bunch of stuff you will realize you wont need. May as well return them and get what you do need. Besides, there is so much stuff you dont even need right away.
I say this because there was so much stuff that I never even used. Since it was opened and I had thrown away all my gift reciepts, I was stuck with it all.
I thought my DD was the ONLY baby who never liked these. Everyone I know used Soothies with their kids, but DD couldn't figure them out.
To OP, the time of year your baby is born will affect many of your item choices. For example, we never even bought a stroller until DD was 6 months old b/c she was born mid-November in cold Michigan. Things that we loved the first few weeks: side snap t-shirts w/built in mittens, swaddle me blankets, Boppy, pack and play bassinet. We also used our Fisher Price rainforest bouncy chair, video monitor, Baby Einstein activity gym (with light-up star), and Moby Wrap often.
We loved the snugglenest with the sleep positioner, the Bundle Me, Sleepsacks, Swaddle Me, GAP onesies and Carter's footed sleepers, the Little Lamb swing, our bouncer, our Graco travel system, our pack and play with the changing table, our diaper champs (one upstairs one downstairs - trashcans were smelly with the big poos and our dogs can't open the diaper champ), Summer Infant video monitor, nail clippers, cloth diapers for burpcloths, and our playmat.
We didn't get much use out of 0-3 month clothing, hairbrush (yet), bottles people bought (we changed our mind), or the wipe warmer.
We didn't bother buying many clothing items under 6mo size thinking we would have a big baby(like the rest of my family) We ended up with a 4lb preemie that had nothing to wear. He wore preemie clothes for 2 months and then wore 0-3 until he was almost 5 months.
Again...it's all personal preference and it just depends on what is gonna work for you.
I didn't register for a diaper genie (baby trash can with sealed lid works great), or a diaper warmer (seems a little silly IMO). I also got a ton of burb cloths and never use them because they are made way too thin. Don't waste your time. Get cloth diapers (Gerber makes some) to use as burb cloths instead. I also got a travel system and a Maclaren umbrella stroller (which I love!) and am now realizing that I should have just gotten the snap-n-go with an infant car seat and the umbrella stroller. Oh well!
In regards to clothes, you never really can tell how your baby is going to grow. My 8lb 3 oz baby is still only 14.5 lbs at almost 8 months (long and lean!) which means she can still fit in some 3 month clothes from last winter and the 6 month pants are still falling off her butt. Since you are having a winter baby, you DEFINITELY need onesies to go under clothes and lots of socks too! The BundleMe is great and I'm happy my DD is small enough to still fit in her infant car seat this winter so we can use it again. It is sooooooooo much easier! Good luck!
Didn't need:
wipes warmer (turns out at the beginning, he cried whether or not the wipes were warm or cold), expensive stoller/travel system, mittens (I prefered to just cut his nails so he could use his sense of touch for learning and exploring), shoes (don't find them necessary until he's walking), diapers (turned out DS was allergic to the brand we "chose".....(Pampers, BTW), ear thermometer (pedi recommends the anal therm. and that's all we trust and use....freaked me out at first, but once I used it on DS, it was no big deal......he didn't even react).
Stuff I love/loved:
FP Rainforest swing & bouncy chair & platmat & jumperoo & highchair, bumbo, boppy, Diaper Genie II (DH and I LOVE it - no smell and super convenient), extra fitted crib sheets, Halo sleepsaks, onesies, Snap N Go (LOVE this. Our "pricey" stroller is parked in our garage. The Snap N Go is always with me), breast pump (if you're choosing to go that route. mine was invaluable to me and I used the Lansinoh Double Electric), Humidifier, Infant Tylenol, Mylicon.