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Saw "my" onesie on a newborn last night :-(

I work in postpartum, so I take care of babies every night I work, and to be honest it doesn't bother me most of the time. Last night one of my babies was wearing the "50% Mommy 50% Daddy" onesie from Old Navy that I bought in June and gave to DH when we got our last bfp.  It totally caught me off guard to see this onesie on that baby last night.  Luckily I didn't miss a beat, so the parents had no idea...after the split-second of shock, I said "cute outfit!".  It is adorable.  :-( 

 I can't wait until MY baby can wear it.

BFP #1 - 2/1/09-mc 2/5/09 @4wks
BFP #2 - 6/24/09-mc 7/25/09 @8wks
6/09 Dx w/PCOS--Metformin & Progesterone
8/09 Dx w/Compound Hetero MTHFR--Neevo, Metanx & BA
BFP #3 - 1/11/10 - DD1 born 9/16/10 @39w4d, 8lbs 14oz & 20in.
Heparin from BFP to 34wks.
BFP #4 - 10/4/11 - DD2 born 6/2/12 @38w1d, 8lbs 11oz & 21in.
Same med protocol as last time, but heparin continued until delivery.
BFP #5 - 3/30/14, EDC 12/10/14!!

Beta #1-76 (12dpo), Beta #2-238 (14dpo)
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Re: Saw "my" onesie on a newborn last night :-(

  • (((hugs))) It will look so much better on your baby!  Stick out tongue
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  • awww abigail... i'm so sorry :( that sucks :( your baby will wear the onsie and SOON! :)
  • I bought the same onesie too... maybe it was your post that I saw that inspired me to buy it... not sure.  Did you post on the 1st Tri board with you BFP story and a pic of the onesie?

    I would be upset too if I saw it on another baby.  But you will be able to put it on your baby one day... stay positive!

    BFP July 09 - m/c Aug 09
    BFP Nov 09 - c/p Dec 09
    BFP Dec 09 - A&J born in August 2010 at 37w, 6d
    BFP Sept 11 - ectopic pregnancy/left tube removed
    BFP April 12 - E born December 2012 at 39w, 1d

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  • imageTheNewFry:

    I bought the same onesie too... maybe it was your post that I saw that inspired me to buy it... not sure.  Did you post on the 1st Tri board with you BFP story and a pic of the onesie?

    I would be upset too if I saw it on another baby.  But you will be able to put it on your baby one day... stay positive!

    Nope that wasn't me.  The post I remember back in June was from Carasizemore (now on SAL, yay!!)...a few of us went out and bought it in anticipation bfps. :-)

    BFP #1 - 2/1/09-mc 2/5/09 @4wks
    BFP #2 - 6/24/09-mc 7/25/09 @8wks
    6/09 Dx w/PCOS--Metformin & Progesterone
    8/09 Dx w/Compound Hetero MTHFR--Neevo, Metanx & BA
    BFP #3 - 1/11/10 - DD1 born 9/16/10 @39w4d, 8lbs 14oz & 20in.
    Heparin from BFP to 34wks.
    BFP #4 - 10/4/11 - DD2 born 6/2/12 @38w1d, 8lbs 11oz & 21in.
    Same med protocol as last time, but heparin continued until delivery.
    BFP #5 - 3/30/14, EDC 12/10/14!!

    Beta #1-76 (12dpo), Beta #2-238 (14dpo)
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • imagePeetiePie:
    (((hugs))) It will look so much better on your baby!  Stick out tongue

    Yes it will.  That baby wasn't even that cute (I'm just being bitter). Smile

    BFP #1 - 2/1/09-mc 2/5/09 @4wks
    BFP #2 - 6/24/09-mc 7/25/09 @8wks
    6/09 Dx w/PCOS--Metformin & Progesterone
    8/09 Dx w/Compound Hetero MTHFR--Neevo, Metanx & BA
    BFP #3 - 1/11/10 - DD1 born 9/16/10 @39w4d, 8lbs 14oz & 20in.
    Heparin from BFP to 34wks.
    BFP #4 - 10/4/11 - DD2 born 6/2/12 @38w1d, 8lbs 11oz & 21in.
    Same med protocol as last time, but heparin continued until delivery.
    BFP #5 - 3/30/14, EDC 12/10/14!!

    Beta #1-76 (12dpo), Beta #2-238 (14dpo)
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • imageBabyRN2009:
    imageTheNewFry:

    I bought the same onesie too... maybe it was your post that I saw that inspired me to buy it... not sure.  Did you post on the 1st Tri board with you BFP story and a pic of the onesie?

    I would be upset too if I saw it on another baby.  But you will be able to put it on your baby one day... stay positive!

    Nope that wasn't me.  The post I remember back in June was from Carasizemore (now on SAL, yay!!)...a few of us went out and bought it in anticipation bfps. :-)

    I knew I saw a post about it somewhere... it is such a cute onesie... your baby is going to look super cute in it!  Fingers crossed for you!

    BFP July 09 - m/c Aug 09
    BFP Nov 09 - c/p Dec 09
    BFP Dec 09 - A&J born in August 2010 at 37w, 6d
    BFP Sept 11 - ectopic pregnancy/left tube removed
    BFP April 12 - E born December 2012 at 39w, 1d

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  • you should have said, "oh we need to do a transurethralepiduralectomy on the baby, its routine.  I'll be riiiiiiiight back"    and then you take the baby to the nursery and switch the onesie with another one. 
  • Ugh... that must have stung.  I'm glad you were able to talk with the parents without skipping a beat though.  Good job!
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