So, I'm a wretched biitch.

LittleMamaB · August 2009

I have been super sick my entire pregnancy and it has really been wearing on me. I am super mody because I always feel like garbage. My poor husband. LOL.

He was late coming home from work today and I freaked out and hung up the phone on him. I felt awful because I am just not that wife. We rarely argue, but I had just had it today and was so pissed that he didn't come straight home.

He felt bad...and then I felt bad for making him feel bad. The poor guy. It's not his fault that I feel awful (well, it's half his fault, I guess) and he has to put up with me. Bless his heart.

ScissorTailedFlycatcher · August 2009

Gotta love those hormones. DH, my mom, and I were in the car yesterday and I mentioned I had to pee. I started crying. Why? I HAVE NO IDEA. Ugh. At least they learn to forgive us. :-)

lionessdiane · August 2009

We all have days like this. Don't be too hard on yourself! You are growing a baby and are going to "snap" now and then.

avbliss · August 2009

I tried really hard when I felt my worst not to get pissy with DH but that didn't always work. So to make up for it I tried to do nice things when I had moments of feeling better. Since I never had the energy to give him massages anymore I bought one of those massage chair thingys, and he uses it daily. So maybe getting him something that will destress or that he will enjoy as a "thank you for putting up with my madness" would make you less guilty when you do have moments of b*tchiness. Worked so well with my DH that he started doing all the laundry since going up and down the stairs was really hard for me since I was always dizzy and nauseous.

oohgrrl11 · August 2009

I have hung up on DH a few times. The sad thing is I think he is getting used to it because when I apologized to him he said "Oh thats ok. I just thought it meant you were done talking to me." hahaha

And today I called my mom and she didn't answer her phone and I knew she was having a little party at her house. I called right back and she answered and I broke down crying and was like "Why can't I ever get ahold of you? What if it was an emergency? Waaaa!"

TCTF · August 2009

Yeah I do that a lot. Or the opposite and burst into tears over nothing! I had a total melt down the other night and freaked DH out. He thought he had hurt my feelings, but he didn't say anything wrong or hurtful at all, I just couldn't help it :-p

LarloBlue · August 2009

shortyred919:
Gotta love those hormones. DH, my mom, and I were in the car yesterday and I mentioned I had to pee. I started crying. Why? I HAVE NO IDEA. Ugh. At least they learn to forgive us. :-)

Last weekend I cried because there was mustard on my hamburger...lol

laureneyoung@hotmail.com · August 2009

you're not a wretched ***, you're hormonal. and chances are he knows that, too. i did something similar to my dh tonight. i was at work and he was at home. we never go a whole night without talking, so i called him and called him and called him, and he never answered. he has epilepsy, so i was worried he had a seizure alone. so i called his brother to go check on him. he was fine, but he still didn't call me after he knew i was worried! boy did i let him have it when i got home. i probably overreacted, but he knows that i was worried, and that hormones had something to do with it.

fiftysixty · August 2009

Oh, man. You're not the only one. I feel so badly when I snap at DH, and I know logically later that it's just the hormones, so it makes me feel terrible because there wasn't even a reason. He waits until I"m feeling better than teases me about being mean to him, but he's such a good sport. He's slowly figured out that he can't fix the hormones- he just has to keep his mouth shut, and give me hugs. It goes away.

The man has the patience of a saint, and I adore him for it.

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