Yes, this is direct quote from Dh's cousin yesterday in my house. (she is pg) All day she kept asking me " when are you going to give dh a baby" "when are you guys going to have a baby?" She called me over to touch her belly while the baby was moving. And to top it off she laughed and said if she still wasn't for the baby to come in September she could always sell the baby on ebay! I know that was a joke...but last night was not my choice of spending my saturday, i wanted friend and family eating and having a good time and in turned into her questioning me in my own house! ugh
Thanks for listening ladies I needed to vent.
Re: If it doesn't work out I can sell the baby on ebay...
Good for you for not punching her in the face. She totally deserved it! I wish people were more sensitive knowing about IF, but so far that hasn't put a stop to dumbass comments for me.
ps- Love you OOP blows siggy. It blows SOOOOO bad!
That totally sucks! I don't know if I could have been nice to her. I probably would have ignored her until she got mad and left.
I feel like wearing a sign that says "DH and I are infertile. We don't want to hear about how you are having an oops baby, don't want your kids right now but are happy to give them to us, we just need to relax and we're so lucky because we get to sleep in. If you say any of this to us or anything like this to us you have been forewarned that I am going to kick your @ss (even if you are pg)! and PS I don't want to touch your F***ing belly."
Do you think I could have a shirt like that made? I feel better now thanks for letting me vent.
Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
If you do get a shirt like that will you please add "Don't tell me God has other plans" or that "when it is meant to be it will happen!"
I want this shirt now too!!!
Ditto. I'm at the point that I very well could have. HUGS to you!
Became licensed for Foster Care: March 2011
Adoption Finalized: December 2013
LISTEN TO THE MUSN'TS CHILD, LISTEN TO THE DON'TS.
LISTEN TO THE SHOULDN'TS, THE IMPOSSIBLES, THE WONT'S.
LISTEN TO THE NEVER HAVES, THEN LISTEN CLOSE TO ME.
ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN, CHILD, ANYTHING CAN BE.
-Shel Silverstein
Unexplained Infertility
After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!
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After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!