Infertility

DH is getting nervous about beta on Tues :(

you know I'm handling it better than I thought. Maybe its because I'm trying to stay positive to the "signs" I've had this past week...hoping to take them as good signs: implantation bleeding, cramping, boobs killing me, thirst, tired...hoping these are good signs!

Today DH is grumpy...partly b/c we didn't go to the shore b/c I'm still crampy (today is 12dp3dt)....and he's getting nervous about beta, preparing himself for the worst. I told him to please stay positive...I need him to stay somewhat optimistic.

I'm hoping the signs I've had are good signs...I just haven't seen DH like this in a long time! He's really freaking out!

Re: DH is getting nervous about beta on Tues :(

  • yeah, it always freaks me out when my husband is pessimistic - I need him to be the strong one! I guess I can't always expect that from him though.

    good luck Tues!!!

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  • Hang in there and hope you get some good news!!!
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  • we're the opposite, my beta is on friday and i'm starting to get nervous about it, but my husband is being the positive one.  sheesh, this waiting sucks.  

    since you're already 15dpo, why dont you poas?   GOOD LUCK!

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    we're the opposite, my beta is on friday and i'm starting to get nervous about it, but my husband is being the positive one.  sheesh, this waiting sucks.  

    since you're already 15dpo, why dont you poas?   GOOD LUCK!

    Way too afraid! Dh and I think ignorance is easier to handle than seeing disappointment...although I may run out to the store and buy one! I just can't imagine seeing a negative!

  • I know how you feel - it always surprises me when my DH gets nervous about anything IF-related.  Good luck with your beta...tons of beta dust to you!
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  • It's always hard when dh isn't the rock. Best of luck Tuesday!
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