Yes,and if you have a Dependant Care FSA (flexible spending account, but separate from medical FSA) available at your or DH's employer you can use this $$ at an in-home daycare.
Married June '03. DS born Jan '09. DD born Feb '12. No, we didn't choose to be childless for the first 6 years, only the first 3.
Re: daycare and taxes
I never heard of this. Does this credit apply to in home care only?