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all energy at work and none left for family

I teach and I am often physically at work for 9-10 hours a day.  Then I often need to bring work home.  I am exhausted and irritable at the end of the day.  I hate this.  I have no energy for DD.  DH works in the evenings a lot so I am on my own with her.  I'm always feeling guilty because all I want to do is rest at the end of the day.  I have no time or energy to work out in addition to no energy for my family.  If I am not doing something for work then there is always something around the house that I feel guilty for not doing.  I make a point to play with DD every day but sometimes I am really not "all there" because I am so tired.  I hate that I have to work but that is the reality of the situation.  I'm getting more depressed about this each day.  I don't know what to do.  In this economy, I can't exactly get another job.  After this year I will have tenure.  Thanks for the vent.

Re: all energy at work and none left for family

  • I feel this way.  I work so hard and then am so tired when I get home.  I work long hours and my job is high stress.  I love my job but am just so tired at the end of the day.  I'm also training for a 10k - it just seems like some days I can handle it all and it's fine.  Then some weeks I am a wreck (this week has been very crazy for me)!  GL finding your balance!
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    Each year that I teach, I find that I become more and more efficient. I don't chat at work, and I work my @ss off during my preps and lunch- no (ok, limited) chatting and gossiping and I find that I can get everything done at work. I am still tired when I leave,but at least I can leave it all behind!

    DD1 12.18.06 DD2 9.18.08 DD3 EDD 5.10.2012 BabyFruit Ticker
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