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B!tches having babies...

DaniGirl0517DaniGirl0517 member
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Ugh.  I just read the "I've decided to follow the lead" post and I feel her pain!  One friend of mine has a 7 1/2 mo old who isn't hitting her developmental marks b/c she doesn't get enough real attention.  When I babysit I make sure to read to and interact with her.  I actually talk TO her not AT her.  "That's a nose, I have a nose and you have a nose.  That's your nose!  You found it, you found your nose!"  The mom is a twit who treats her baby an accessory.  When the mom goes out to drink, smoke (not just cigarettes) and basically party, she either pawns the kid off on someone or takes the baby with her but leaves her on someone's bed with pillows "keeping her in."  Then she stops drinking a little while before she leaves but IMO you shouldn't have ANY alcohol or other substance in your system if you're going to be driving your child around with you.  The kicker?  She lives at home with her mom, has a crappy job at a retail store (long term plan? no.) and no drive to better her child's life.  Honestly at this point, I'm about to STEAL a baby!  And her daughter looks much more like me than her...

 

(note: just kidding I would never ever do that no matter how douchetacular the mother)

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  • missred75missred75 member
    People suck. The poor little girl. I'm sorry you have to witness that. I don't know if I could keep my mouth shut.
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  • DaniGirl0517DaniGirl0517 member
    Yeah, I just try to baby sit her as often as possible so she gets proper stimulation and proper care at least once in a while.  It's hard to keep my mouth shut though, I have literally BITTEN my tongue not to say something.
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  • TarahvilleTarahville
    It sucks so much that these ungrateful bitches can have such a blessing and here us wonderful ladies are stuck on this darn rollercoaster of Infertility.
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    Stories like that really piss me off.
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  • SunMoon&StarsSunMoon&Stars member
    imageDaniGirl0517:

    The mom is a twit who treats her baby an accessory.  When the mom goes out to drink, smoke (not just cigarettes) and basically party, she either pawns the kid off on someone or takes the baby with her but leaves her on someone's bed with pillows "keeping her in."  Then she stops drinking a little while before she leaves but IMO you shouldn't have ANY alcohol or other substance in your system if you're going to be driving your child around with you.  The kicker?  She lives at home with her mom, has a crappy job at a retail store (long term plan? no.) and no drive to better her child's life. 

    This was the exact situation with Casey Anthony....well, except Casey was fired from her job, lied and said she was still employed for two years, and dropped her DD off at the fake nanny when she went to 'work".

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