Infertility

Ugh - it was just a FB status, that's all!

So, I just updated my FB status to "Kelli is happy that Rob's commute goes from 20 miles/40 minutes down to 2 miles/5 minutes starting tomorrow morning.  Now, if I need him to open a jar of pickles for me, he can shoot right home and do it!  YAY!"  That's all I wrote......

And within 5 minutes one of my friends who is always bugging me to "have a couple of kids already!" comments "Are you craving pickles??? Something you want to tell us?!" which got some of my other friends asking too.... I deleted some their comments because the last thing I need is people thinking I'm pg when I'm not and having to explain on Facebook that no, I'm still not pg.  I simply said "Eh, I picked something in a jar..."

It was just a status - nothing else!  Besides, would I really announce a pregnancy like that?! 


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Re: Ugh - it was just a FB status, that's all!

  • Geez.....some people are clueless.
    TTC 7+ years - 3 failed IUI's; not going the IVF route; stopped treatment December 2013.

    Became licensed for Foster Care: March 2011
    Adoption Finalized: December 2013


    LISTEN TO THE MUSN'TS CHILD, LISTEN TO THE DON'TS.
    LISTEN TO THE SHOULDN'TS, THE IMPOSSIBLES, THE WONT'S.
    LISTEN TO THE NEVER HAVES, THEN LISTEN CLOSE TO ME.
    ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN, CHILD, ANYTHING CAN BE.
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  • yeah I sometimes forget how people interpret things. . . my FB status stated how tired I was. . .tons of comments from people stating that's exactly how they felt when they found out they were pg.  i just wanted to post a huge fu! 

    then yesterday i went in to talk to my new principal and tell her all about my IF.  DH came with me b/c funny enough, she was his vice principal where he teaches.  So when we came in together to talk to her, the stupid secretary said, "oh are you glowing?!"  grrrr!  not the first time she's asked something like that.

    i hate how a really simple and actually innocent comment can make us sooooo angry.   i really wish we knew what it felt like to be "normal" where sh!t like that didn't bother us. . .

    S/PAIFW
    Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
    PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
    Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
    Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
    Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
    Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
    IVF #3
  • Wow People can suck!
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  • Sorry. People will always find a way to see only what they want to see. And people don't think before they post. Like you would come out on Facebook. So not cool. Hugs.
    PAIF and SAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC since 2007
    6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
    IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
    IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
    Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
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  • I LOVE pickles! last week i posted that I "downed 7 pickles and loved every last bite of them" but it was mainly because I hadn't had some in a while. (didn't realize people would take it in the "pregnant" way)
  • Gosh! Some people really need to get a grip! Leave it to a fertile to read too much into a pickle reference.
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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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    Surprise! Baby #4 is due in March!
  • people suck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • This happens to me too and it ticks me off. I posted I had a strange dream one night and got responses about having dreams when you're pregnant etc. And most people know what I'm going through so if I were pregnant don't they think I would just tell them!!!!!
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