So, I just updated my FB status to "Kelli is happy that Rob's commute goes from 20 miles/40 minutes down to 2 miles/5 minutes starting tomorrow morning. Now, if I need him to open a jar of pickles for me, he can shoot right home and do it! YAY!" That's all I wrote......
And within 5 minutes one of my friends who is always bugging me to "have a couple of kids already!" comments "Are you craving pickles??? Something you want to tell us?!" which got some of my other friends asking too.... I deleted some their comments because the last thing I need is people thinking I'm pg when I'm not and having to explain on Facebook that no, I'm still not pg. I simply said "Eh, I picked something in a jar..."
It was just a status - nothing else! Besides, would I really announce a pregnancy like that?!
Re: Ugh - it was just a FB status, that's all!
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LISTEN TO THE SHOULDN'TS, THE IMPOSSIBLES, THE WONT'S.
LISTEN TO THE NEVER HAVES, THEN LISTEN CLOSE TO ME.
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yeah I sometimes forget how people interpret things. . . my FB status stated how tired I was. . .tons of comments from people stating that's exactly how they felt when they found out they were pg. i just wanted to post a huge fu!
then yesterday i went in to talk to my new principal and tell her all about my IF. DH came with me b/c funny enough, she was his vice principal where he teaches. So when we came in together to talk to her, the stupid secretary said, "oh are you glowing?!" grrrr! not the first time she's asked something like that.
i hate how a really simple and actually innocent comment can make us sooooo angry. i really wish we knew what it felt like to be "normal" where sh!t like that didn't bother us. . .
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
TTC since 2007
6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
Unexplained Infertility
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