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grrr I cant take all the baby talk anymore!

Mrs.BuzlyMrs.Buzly
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Seriously in the past two days, I've had 5 'friends' announce their pregnancies on facebook. FIVE. Ugh, sometimes I wonder if having a facebook is even worth the heartache, you know? One of them just so happens to be my ex boyfriend (from hs) and his wife--gag me. 

I'm a teacher and today we had an inservice. My coworker in my dept is pregnant, as is another good friend of ours. Well, we went out for lunch along with another coworker who is also TTC. The ENTIRE conversation was about babies. Thankfully they all know about my troubles, so the attention wasn't on me directly, but that didn't stop them from talking about it the whole time.

FUIF, that is all. Vent over, thanks for listening :) You girls are the best!

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  • TiffanyA83TiffanyA83 member
    That's what we're here for....I can agree with your aggravation....I have three co-workers pg and that's all I hear about. Good for them. Sucky for me.
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  • Me&Mr.TMe&Mr.T

    I totally understand. I've had 3 announcements in the past 2 weeks, 1 of them was a very difficult announcement to hear about because of the situation the girl is in. And I will be finishing up my post-bacc program in December but still have to do student teaching for it. The teacher I was placed with found out she was pregnant in May... so I know I will be hearing A LOT about babies. It is going to be rough. And tonight we were outside talking to friends and a very pregnant woman and her husband walked by. Well our friends knew them so they came over to talk to them. We stood there for 15 minutes talking all things baby. They were a very nice couple, it was just tough to hear. they were talking names and when she might go (she is 9 months).

    ((HUGS!)) It is hard! It really is not fair. FUIF!

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  • Chels0504Chels0504
    I can TOTALLLLLLLY relate. Hugs!!
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  • jehnmjehnm
    A very close friend told me today that she'd have a baby if it wouldn't destroy her body!!  Yes, I about hit her and I totally hear ya!!
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    Two of my closest friends just had babies this year. The conversation ALWAYS seems to come around to babies and pregnancy. It totally sucks! I'm so sorry. (((((hugs)))))
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  • hopecountshopecounts member
    Vent away, those days suck.
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