I posted last night about a friend of mine who is in labor and I have been dodging her calls because I can't deal.
So anyways after much encouragement from the ladies on this board I put on my big girl panties
and called the hospital. I congratulated her and said I would come by this afternoon. I figure if I can get this out of the way now it will be better than stressing about it until I inevitably have to see them. Plus there will probably be other people there so I won't have to stay long. I also sent flowers.
I have cried on the way to work, at work and I am sure I will be crying on and off throughout the day. I just pray I can hold it together at the hospital but since I have started crying while typing this I am not very hopeful
.
So wish me luck!
Thanks again ladies!
Re: So I called the hospital...
GL
I hope your visit passes quickly and no tears until you're alone
Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)
It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
Hey, I hope the visit goes okay. I agree, that at least at the hospital you won't have to stick around long. I hate seeing new babies since the moms are always trying to shove them in my face. Like since you can't have a baby, here hold mine. I hope it goes okay and you can stay strong while your are there. I missed your post last night, so not sure if she knows of your struggles, but if she does I hope she is understanding.
Hugs. You are a good friend and one day you will have a baby. We all will. That's what I have to keep thinking.
TTC since 2007
6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
Aw, Yellow Daisy~
I didn't respond to your post last night, because I probably would have just ignored my friend, and that makes me feel like a total heel. You did the right thing, and you're a better person than I.
Zombie Hugs!
