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Done trying?

wannabealewiswannabealewis
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I am so upset but trying not to show it. My dh is having a really hard time at work and is wanting to quit. I told him he can't quit, he had to find another job first. He thinks he might get fired, if he does we will lose our insurance. I think it will be wise for us to stop trying until we know he is stable at work. It breaks my heart because last month was out first time ttc. I just needed to vent and say that I am sad, because I can't tell my dh or he will feel bad.
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Re: Done trying?

  • kimarino13kimarino13 member

    You started TTC last month?  Did you mean to post this on the Trouble Trying To Conceive board?

    I agree with holding off on TTC until you know your husband will keep his job/insurance.


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  • EMNTOMEMNTOM

    Last month was your first month TTC??

    You should definitely hold off until you know that your husband's job and health insurance is in a stable place.

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  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
    um, I am new here so maybe I am missing something....but when you say last month was your first time ttc, do you mean ever?  or just after a break?


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  • wannabealewiswannabealewis
    We just got married in may. So last month was our first month trying with the help of a dr. We have never used protection and never gotten pregnant. So the way the dr sees it, we were trying without trying, if that makes any sense. I have pcos and insulin resistance is one of the many symptoms I have. We used clomid last month for the first time but did not ovulate. This month I have started on metformin. Sorry if I confused anyone.
    My IVF twins born at 33w6days by c-section due to twin A being IUGR Rylan born at 2:54pm weighing 2lb 8oz, 14.5 inches Emma born at 2:55pm weighing 5lb 5oz, 18 inches Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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