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Back from consult with new RE (long) (saifw)

It went really well :)

I went into office and the nurse immediately says to me I knew I knew you (not the words you want to hear when walking into RE's office).  Anyway, turns out she's my old co-workers wife and we had met a couple of years ago.  She stresses to me not to worry she will not mention anything to husband, she respects all patients confidenciality (sp?) and that if I need anything or have any questions do not hesitate to call her.  She was really nice but it did freak me out.

Anyway the Dr. came out to get me and he was very easy-going and we get into his office and gets my chart and asks me to give him history and I lose it :(  Crying  I am the biggest crier ever!  I went over everything DH has been through and why we're leaving cor.nell.  I apologized for crying but he told me not to worry we'd been through a lot and handed me lots of tissues.

We talked about next steps.

I don't need to do any b/w since had cd3 in March and everything looks good accept my androgens are slightly elevated and I have a mild case of PCOS.  I O on my own but around cd 17-20 and that is the reason why I O later.  I don't need to take anything, he just wants to monitor my O closely.

I need to have HSG done (I'm hoping AF shows up within next day, I can schedule before vacation).

I will be doing natural d-iui's at first.  He will be monitoring me from cd 8 b/c he wants to see quality of egg and then decide if necessary if I need meds for future cycles.

I met my nurse, who was the original person I first spoke to when I called back in July and she is so sweet.  She gave me next steps and her email and told me not to worry about anything and if I have any questions/concerns to email her even on weekends.

I also met with insurance coordinator who told me my coverage and said everything was all set :)  I have unlimited iui's and don't need pre-approval so that's cool.

We talked about ds getting to them and I may need to do d-iui's in city b/c they aren't there on weekends.

So, tomorrow I am going to call cryobank and tell them about clinic switch and get myu nurse the paperwork for ds delivery.

If all goes well - we could be cycling in October :)

Dr. T also gave me his email and said not to hesitate to to email or call with any questions.

When I walked out I saw old co-worker's wife again and she had my note for work ready for me (I work for a gov't agency and need to document every sec I am not working) and stressed to call with anything and that they really want me to be confortable with everything and that they strive for a family environment.

Thanks for reading. 

Oh, and all the deforestation I did this morning was for nothing - no physical exam.

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Re: Back from consult with new RE (long) (saifw)

  • It sounds like it went well and you are at a great place, I am so excited for you!!  I admire you and your husband's persistence and all you've been through.  I hope this cycle does it for you and you can finally move out of here.  We will probably be cycling again in October too.  I am thinking maybe mid-late Oct.  I hope I can move out right along with you  :)
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  • I am sooooooo happy you had such a good appt!!!! You're going to be so rested and relaxed from vacation and then have such a great winter after it. :)

     

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  • Sounds like it went fantastically! I'm so happy to see you getting rolling again. It may have been weird to see someone you knew at the office but it may be helpful to have a friend on the inside. I hope AF cooperates and you can get the HSG done so you're ready to go after vacation. I hope today was the first step towards success at your new clinic. Yay!
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  • Deforestation! I love it!

    I am sorry you had a crying fit-welcome to my world-but it sounds like a good fit for you. Oct will be here SOON!

  • that sounds great!!  i love how comfortable with them you sound!  and lmao at "deforestation"!!
  • Sounds like things went well. A co-worker of my Hs wife was my financial advisor - awkward.

    I am so happy you are gearing up to go! October is your month! 

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  • Ok, I really did read your whole post and I hope things work out for you. But you lost me at the end....Deforestation just made me bust out laughing Big Smile
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  • sounds like you are in good hands!!! hoping that October is here before you know it!
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  • Sounds like things are going to work out great.  I am so happy for you and D.  Smile
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  • so glad you are happy with your new RE and that you are moving forward. i hope we can both say "goodbye" to this board in october
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  • The deforestation is for your hubby.....Wink
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  • imagetheworms:

    Oh, and all the deforestation I did this morning was for nothing - no physical exam.

    you kill me, M-L, you really do. Big Smile I heart you so!!!

    I'm so glad your consult went so well! I would have felt weird too seeing former co-worker's DW, but glad to hear she's clear on the patient confidentiality part.

    I'm so excited you're cycling again. :-)

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  • i'm glad your appt with the new RE went well. I'm sure october will bring great things for you!
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  • Oh that's so exciting!! It sounds like you're in wonderful hands. I can't wait to see your BFP post in the near future. :)
  • It sounds like everything went well. Glad to see you are moving forward.
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  • Sounds like a great visit!  So happy that it went well :)
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  • YAY!!!!!!!

    I am so glad that everything went well, honey!

    I am so excited fro you!!!!!!

    Looks like you and I are going to get knocked up together! ;) 

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  • Oh that is great! Isn't he so super mellow? I found him very easy to talk to. Don't worry about crying, he has seen it all. I am a big baby too. You are on your way woman!
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  • I'm so glad that it went well for you!!!!
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  • imageTarahville:
    Oh that's so exciting!! It sounds like you're in wonderful hands. I can't wait to see your BFP post in the near future. :)

    me too!! and I got a kick out of the deforestation.

  • I am so glad it went well and he seems like a really good RE.  I am so happy you are moving forward !!!
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  • I'm so glad it worked out and that you have a plan.  Maybe DH can enjoy the deforestation so that it won't go to waste.  :  )
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  • You girls are cracking me up with the deforestation!

    It sounds like you had a great appointment, I cant' wait to see what October brings for you!
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  • So glad your appointment went well today!  I really hope you get to cycle in October~how exciting!  Hoping for some great news from you soon!  Best wishes!
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  • Sounds like a plan! Glad things worked out well and you feel comfortable with the new RE.
  • Sounds like an excellent plan, I am glad it went well.
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  • I'm so incredibly happy that things went so beautifully! 

    I am SOOOOOOOOOOO excited for you!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • i'm glad that you had a good experience and that you have a new plan going forward.  i'm excited for you!!!  good luck, and of course, keep me posted :  )
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  • I'm glad your consult went well.  Good luck to you.  BTW, I did read your whole post but somehow missed the deforestation and had to go back to find it, LOL. 

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