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Urologist staff suck!

PMBridetobePMBridetobe member
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DH is getting a MESA.  I had to set some things up for him and needed to talk to, lets call her, insensitive T.  As she and I were talking, she seemed to be really not listening and I asked her to explain why something was the way it was and she goes to tell me " You should expect that! It is after all ELECTIVE surgery!" 


Ok. I logically know it is elective surgery.  However said elective surgery is the only way that I may ever be able to conceive.  So, for someone who wants a baby, it really is not elective surgery.  It is essential to the process.  There were a variety of ways that she could have approached my question without being an insensitive dumb@ss.   My usual person to talk with called me this morning to apologize. 

But really, should I celebrate my elective child on thier elective birthday?  GRRR.  I tried to tell her that when she is talking to an infertile person who just cant go off the pill or whoops, get pregnant, it is important to have some sensitivity.  She just didnt get it.

Anyway, insensitive people suck.

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  • ronatxtxronatxtx

    If its the same office my DH went to I completely agree. THEY SUCK!

    I'm sorry!

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  • Mrs.AmandaMqnMrs.AmandaMqn

    wow, I am shocked that someone could be that dense. What a frickin' idiot.

    We have idiots at our urologist's office too so I feel your pain.

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  • Angel1122Angel1122 member
    Sorry you had to deal with such a rude and insensitive person, I hate sucky staff, if they hate their job, they should quit and let a nicer person take over. One of my REs secretary was like that, luckily I only had to deal with her twice, I was told she was no longer there before I had time to complain about how rude she was.
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  • GenRN45GenRN45
    imageMrs.AmandaMqn:

    wow, I am shocked that someone could be that dense. What a frickin' idiot.

    We have idiots at our urologist's office too so I feel your pain.

    I'm not shocked at idiots... somedays I feel like EVERYONE is stupid.


    I'm sorry you had to deal with this jack@ss.

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