Does your DH know how many partners you have had?

*punkinpie* · August 2009

I am very into your sex lives Big Smile

j/k...I'm super bored

*punkinpie* · August 2009

Mine knows number, but when I think back, I may have left off a few Embarrassed

KelinandKevin · August 2009

Yes, and he has had about the same as I have. He thinks its good. We are both experienced and we got it all out of our system. He doesn't worry about me wondering how being with another man would be. Been there, done that...and happy with what I have now!

JenyM · August 2009

*punkinpie*:
Mine knows number, but when I think back, I may have left off a few

that's the rule of 3. no?

Nope dh doesn't know my number and I don't know his.

californiastars · August 2009

Yes. We have each had 3 including each other.

I don't want to know details about his and he doesn't want details about mine. We know enough of the stories and that we get the general jist of it.

I think he is actually more of a prude than I am.

WearingRed · August 2009

Yes he know. But he also know I picked him to keep.

Becka1208 · August 2009

He pretty much knows but also knows he can't say a word. He was a super male-ho when we weren't together. He says he doesn't like to think about another guy and me, so as far as he is concerned-I only had one partner and that's him. haha

heathergirl67 · August 2009

Nope and neither of us want him to know. As far as he's concerned I've never slept with anyone but him. Even though he knows it's not true, that's what he tells himself and it keeps us both happy.

Jacquiemark · August 2009

Yes.

ezbakejess · August 2009

He does. We've talked about this exactly one time and that's really all we cared to know.

JaimieLee · August 2009

NO WAY. He knows a "number" but not the correct one. His number is even less than the fake number I told him. And he still brings it up after 4 years. So definitely not telling him. What's the point of upsetting him?

IMO what matters more is that I haven't slept with anyone else while we've been together and never want to be with anyone else again:)

texas77 · August 2009

hell to the no. DH and i were 39 and 31, respectively, when we met so we didn't need to ask each other about the number.

plus i have a theory about this. there is no such thing as a "good" number. you are either lying, inexperienced or a whore in your man's eye. plus no man wants to think about all the other diicks that have been in you. he wants to believe that he is the only one. LOL...

PSA: DONT EVER TELL YOUR NUMBER TO YOUR MAN! it's lose-lose.

meggiejo · August 2009

Sorry I'm just getting into these posts! I have to admit DH only thinks I have had 4 or 5 when it is really 14. I felts bad though when he told me he had been with two if he included me! He is 6 years older, so I really felt like a slut compaired to him!

bostonfingerlakes07 · August 2009

He does...we openly talk about our past sex lives...no jealousy or anything.

My number is pretty low since I was young when I met DH. His is shockingly high since he's 9 years older than me and was in a band. High as in he can only give me an estimate, haha. It's out of his system, he had fun, so who cares!

str8ota · August 2009

As I mentioned in previous post, H does not want to know. Personally, it has never bothered me (again, we were friends so I knew things like when he cheated on his gf with other girls and a lot of his random hook ups) to know his number or things that happened with other girls (like when he loss his v or really bad hookups), it was in the past and I like hearing about things when he was young and dumb because they usually start out with "this one time I was drunk..."

soontobemrsvega · August 2009

HELL NO!!! he told me his but after he told me his "number" I passed on telling him mine bc it was so much higher then his Embarrassed

sinisterkat01 · August 2009

Ugh, yes, I told him my number. I think my number is "respectable", not too low, not too high. The problem is he then proceeded to tell me his number, and we got into some conversations that we shouldn't have had. I asked him if he ever had a true "one night stand", and he said yes. I was drunk, and for some reason, asked him who she was. It was back in his college days, and her name included heather & valentine!

Are you effin kidding me? Was your one night stand with a porn star?

Wished that I never knew!

hopingwaiting · August 2009

Yes.

CarrieLeigh84 · August 2009

no.. and he's never asked.

Just like I've never asked him. Although I do know he was much less experienced than I was when we first got together.

I know I'm his first serious girlfriend. *sigh*

soontobemrsvega · August 2009

meggiejo:
Sorry I'm just getting into these posts! I have to admit DH only thinks I have had 4 or 5 when it is really 14. I felts bad though when he told me he had been with two if he included me! He is 6 years older, so I really felt like a slut compaired to him!

my DH is 11 years old then me...... yeah it didnt feel good knowing my was so high.... lol

soontobemrsvega · August 2009

sinisterkat01:

Ugh, yes, I told him my number. I think my number is "respectable", not too low, not too high. The problem is he then proceeded to tell me his number, and we got into some conversations that we shouldn't have had. I asked him if he ever had a true "one night stand", and he said yes. I was drunk, and for some reason, asked him who she was. It was back in his college days, and her name included heather & valentine!

Are you effin kidding me? Was your one night stand with a porn star?

Wished that I never knew!

but how do you know he is telling the truth!! I mean really?? how many guys when they are younger wish they could hook up with a porn star!!

sinisterkat01 · August 2009

soontobemrsvega:
sinisterkat01:

Ugh, yes, I told him my number. I think my number is "respectable", not too low, not too high. The problem is he then proceeded to tell me his number, and we got into some conversations that we shouldn't have had. I asked him if he ever had a true "one night stand", and he said yes. I was drunk, and for some reason, asked him who she was. It was back in his college days, and her name included heather & valentine!

Are you effin kidding me? Was your one night stand with a porn star?

Wished that I never knew!

but how do you know he is telling the truth!! I mean really?? how many guys when they are younger wish they could hook up with a porn star!!

It wasn't really with a porn star, just some slutty girl in the dorms. And unfortunately, he is telling the truth about her name. I would doubt any other guy, but DH normally tries to hide this stuff from me so that I don't get upset. When we're drunk, we share too much. If he made that one up, then he was just hurting himself in the long run!

katie9136 · August 2009

He knows the edited version. Like 5 less than the actual number!

OregonMama · August 2009

Nope, we've never discussed it. We both know the other was a bit of a ho (bit is an understatement). DH was in a band and has a sordid past. I was a slutbag but he doesn't know how many or even really know that. We just don't feel the need to discuss it.