So we're trying for #3 -(yes i shouldn't even be posting this but seriously its confusing). I've been temping and doing the OPK test. Yesterday the OPK was negative but i had egg white CM. And the night before that i had egg white CM too. We had sex last night and this morning I take the OPK test and it is positive. So that means I will ovulate anytime in the next 24 hours right? I'm having slight cramps right now which means I'm probably ovulating now! I thought these tests are supposed to give me more notice! i've been taking them every morning at 10am. I would have expected the test to come back positive yesterday?? Geesh. Tell me what you think.
Re: WTF. 2 kids and this is still confusing to me.
Have sex again tonight and/or tomorrow morning. You will hopefully catch the egg!
ETA: I used the digital OPKs that said to use FMU, so I did and it worked great for me. But for most of them you should take them in the afternoon, after a few hours of not drinking or peeing.
Some women get days and days of positive OPKs. Some have to test twice a day just to see one positive in a whole cycle. It just depends on how long your surge of lutenizing hormone (LH) is. That's the hormone that spiked right before ovulation.
You can get many days of egg-white cervical fluid leading up to ovulation. Once you get a positive ovulation test, you can expect to ovulation 12-48 hours or so afterwards. So what you are describing sounds normal.
Good luck
Thanks for all your thoughts. My take aways from this if I don't get a bfp this month is
1) Take the OPK test in the afternoon after holding for at least 2 hours (which i thought i did in the morning but maybe it was diluted from my coffee and water)
2) Maybe I'll even take the OPK test twice a day when I am feeling it coming...just in case.
3) Just have sex as soon as I get Egg whites. But man, having two kids and full time jobs - it's exhausting. And last night we were saying we could try again in the morning but it's so not realistic when the 3 yr old walks into our room at 6:30 on the dot. :-) Joy.