Parenting after a Loss

I go back to work tomorrow

After 8 weeks off I return to work tomorrow and I am so not prepared for it. MIL is watching her tomorrow and then she starts her sitters on Monday, I diddn't imagine it would be this hard. I have no clue how I will get thru 8 hours tomorrow.

Re: I go back to work tomorrow

  • Good luck!
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  • ((hugs)) I went back today, but only for a half day and I'm off tomorrow (we had an important staff meeting I needed to be at). I start back every day on Monday. I won't lie, I cried in the car on the way in, and I expect I will again on Monday. But once I was there, it was great to gush about Megan and how wonderful she is. I was such a proud momma and showing her pictures to everyone. And work was actually enough of a distraction to keep me from thinking about her constantly, though I did think about her a lot. I also called the babysitter to check on her, which I've done every day this week during the transition. It's nice just to know if your LO is eating/napping normally.

    Hang in there! It will be rough, but you'll survive. And when you get home and see that smile, it makes you forget all about work!

  • ditto everyone barnstar said. Take pictures with you.. everyone will want to see, and it will give you a chance to gush about her all day.

    I just went back on Tuesday and it was hard, but Robbie did fine. The 2nd day was a bit harder, he was a bit whiny about me leaving, and that made it really hard.. but today went great again..

    Good luck!

  • Wow, how time flies! Just think of the smile LO will have for you when she sees you at the end of the day - it'll be that much sweeter :)
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  • Good luck tomorrow. I hope the day flies by!
  • Good luck tomorrow ((((((((hugs)))))))))
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  • Hugs...I'm not gonna lie it sucks. But it does get a bit easier. Bring lot's of pics so you can see her throughout the day. GL!
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