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Back from dr appt... kinda sad

They took my blood for the beta test. 

But if I'm not KU this time, they won't see me anymore.  They're forcing me to see the RE... which is fine, but the closest one is like 40 min away.  This means more time off of work, and more money.

I guess I'm just feeling a little broken... like a hopeless cause.

Re: Back from dr appt... kinda sad

  • (((HUGS))) I am sorry :O(
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  • There is always hope...:)  and this may be your month... if not, you are meant to find this RE.. and they will help you get your miracle.

    I have faith for you:)

    ((HUGS))

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  • So let's hope that you're ku this time! When do you get the results of the b/w?

    Oh, I hope things are good for you!!

  • Well hopefully it won't matter because your bw will come back good!

    I crossing my fingers for the best!

  • When will you know the results?

    Did you POAS this morning?

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  • Oh I am sorry, that stinks. Hoping though that you are KU'd!
  • I'm sorry!  Don't feel hopeless though, I was a little down about seeing an RE but since my visit I feel like I'm heading in the right direction.  I hope you're KU this cycle and you don't even need to worry about it.

    Fingers crossed that this is your cycle!

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  • (((HUGS))) too...when will you get your results back?
  • I did POAS this morning and it was neg, so I'm not holding out much hope.

     The Dr said they'll either have the bloodwork back at 4:30 today or tomorrow morning.  Last month it too til the next day though.

  • Don't be sad, that's just another reason why you're KU this time :) Keep the faith, girlie... it's not over till the hag shows.

  • oh, I thought it said But I am NOT KU this time, I just noticed I read it wrong & that you are still just 10DPO
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  • I'm sending good thoughts for you, too!  Don't give up hope since 10 DPO is very early to get a positive on an HPT.  Hopefully you will get your b/w back before you need to POAS again.  If not, wait until at least 12 DPO.

    GL and hoping to hear good news from you!

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    I did POAS this morning and it was neg, so I'm not holding out much hope.

     The Dr said they'll either have the bloodwork back at 4:30 today or tomorrow morning.  Last month it too til the next day though.

    I don't know if this will help but for my last pregnancy I had a doctor's appointment and since they were already drawing blood I told them I really thought I was KU.  At that appointment I was 10 dpo.  My betas came back negative and so did the hpt.  I did not get my positive hpt until 14 dpo so don't lose hope yet.

  • Well I sure do hope this is your cycle then. I'm crossing my fingers really really tight.

    If not then I'm sorry. Maybe the RE will get you nice and pregnant much faster? I do hope it doesn't come to that though ((hugs))

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    I did POAS this morning and it was neg, so I'm not holding out much hope. 

    I did that too----when I was pregnant w/dd. ALL of the poas were neg., even at the dr's office. She was fairly certain I wasn't pregnant and prescribed provera (I think that's what it was called??)...to make me start my period------BUT my b/w came back positive before I had to start taking it!!!

    Do you know what lab is processing your b/w? I was able to call w/in 2 hours of my b/w bc it was processed at my local hospital......just curious if you could call the lab  yourself?

     

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    imageMia07:

    I did POAS this morning and it was neg, so I'm not holding out much hope. 

    I did that too----when I was pregnant w/dd. ALL of the poas were neg., even at the dr's office. She was fairly certain I wasn't pregnant and prescribed provera (I think that's what it was called??)...to make me start my period------BUT my b/w came back positive before I had to start taking it!!!

    Do you know what lab is processing your b/w? I was able to call w/in 2 hours of my b/w bc it was processed at my local hospital......just curious if you could call the lab  yourself?

     

    I hadn't thought of that... I always get my bill from LabCorp.  I just googled it and there's a LabCorp lab on the same street as my OB.  I wonder if that's them?

  • HUG!  I am sorry it is so hard.  You are not a hopeless cause. 
  • I am hoping and praying your beta comes back BFP. I really hope you don't have to worry about the RE at all.

    ((hugs))

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  • I hope this is it for you, then, girl!

    But, I understand completely about being sad and feeling broken.  This process can really do that to anyone. 

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  • Oh honey I am so sorry, but hopefully you will be KU so you wont have to make the move!
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    imageMia07:

    I did POAS this morning and it was neg, so I'm not holding out much hope. 

    I did that too----when I was pregnant w/dd. ALL of the poas were neg., even at the dr's office. She was fairly certain I wasn't pregnant and prescribed provera (I think that's what it was called??)...to make me start my period------BUT my b/w came back positive before I had to start taking it!!!

    Do you know what lab is processing your b/w? I was able to call w/in 2 hours of my b/w bc it was processed at my local hospital......just curious if you could call the lab  yourself?

     

     

    I hadn't thought of that... I always get my bill from LabCorp.  I just googled it and there's a LabCorp lab on the same street as my OB.  I wonder if that's them?

    Maybe call and see??

  • I am hoping that this is your month! I will be saying prayers for you!!!! :::fingers crossed:::
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  • I am sorry you are feeling stressed and broken.  You're not broken, but I can understand why you feel that way.  (((hugs)))  I hope the b/w shows that you're KU, but if you aren't, moving to an RE might be a good thing.  They specialize in this and can hopefully figure out precisely what you need to get you KU with a sticky baby.  Yes, it's a pita to take off work and make the haul there, but it will be sooo worth it when it works.  But anyway, here's to hoping you won't need the RE!
  • I hope your KU and wont need the RE!
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    I am sorry you are feeling stressed and broken.  You're not broken, but I can understand why you feel that way.  (((hugs)))  I hope the b/w shows that you're KU, but if you aren't, moving to an RE might be a good thing.  They specialize in this and can hopefully figure out precisely what you need to get you KU with a sticky baby.  Yes, it's a pita to take off work and make the haul there, but it will be sooo worth it when it works.  But anyway, here's to hoping you won't need the RE!
    This! Good luck and keep us posted.
  • Well, hopefully you don't need to worry about the next step.  But seeing an RE if you had to sounds very promising-- a specialist and all.  Hoping profoundly for some good test results!

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  • I'm anxiously awaiting your results. Did they give you any idea when they'll call you?

  • Just read all the posts and saw that you'll prob not know until later today or tomorrow. I hope you get a call yet today!
  • With my pregnancy I had implantation bleeding at 10dpo.  If I had taken a HPT it probably would have been negative.  It's not over til it's over.
  • Don't give up hope yet!  And if this isn't it, seeing the RE is going to open a lot of doors for you and get you on the right path to becoming pg!
     
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  • I really hope you won't have to go to the RE b/c your BW comes back positive, but you are still early....

    But if you do have to move to an RE, I am praying that the RE will get you KU very, very quick.

    Lots of luck to you! Keep us posted.

  • Can't wait to see your beta results.  Don't worry if this isn't your cycle, though- RE's whole livelihood is getting people KO'd so think of it as moving one step closer to your baby.  GL!

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  • You're not going to need to see the RE anyways.  So don't even worry about that!  I can't wait to hear your beta results!  GL!
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  • (((hugs))) Here's hoping you get a good result and you don't have to move on to the RE!
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