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TTC and TTCAL sucks the big one!

ACM1616ACM1616 member
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A friend of mine and her DH started TTC around the same time DH and I did, and she got pregnant her second month.  I found out on Friday that she is pregnant again.. so, in the 20 cycles that i've been trying, she not only got pregnant and had a baby, but is now on to her second pregnancy.

My life sucks right now.

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  • superlupersuperluper

    ugh. I'm so sorry. A friend who started TTC when I did just had her baby and I know how much it stung. 

    ((BIG HUGS))  

    oh please. not KU. effed up.
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  • kimber926kimber926 member
    Aw, that sucks.  {{hugs}}
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  • megjr8megjr8 member

    Oh geez..... :::Hugs:::

    In memory of precious Julia, sweet baby James, and now Timmy who fought so hard.


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  • ACM1616ACM1616 member
    Thanks ladies!  I could really use the hugs this weekend.
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  • heathergirl67heathergirl67 member
    Ugh.  It makes it even harder to be happy for her, doesn't it?  You have to congratulate her through clenched teeth.  I'm sorry.
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  • Kelly0615Kelly0615

    I know what you mean. My cousin has had a baby and is on her 2nd pg in the 20 cycles I've been TTC. It really puts your journey into perspective and not in a good way.

    Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for anyone who has great news, but I am also sad because I want to be a mommy and feel it is never going to happen. 

    Sorry you are going through this. ((HUGS))

    02/08 BFP resulted in m/c 4/10/08 (11 weeks)
    10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
    03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
    3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
    10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!

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  • JenPVHJenPVH

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    Thanks ladies!  I could really use the hugs this weekend.

     

    I am sending you a boatload of hugs!

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  • nemattoxnemattox
    Uggh, that does suck the big one,  Booo to everything about that.  ((Hugs))
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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    same here. my friend now has 2 kids - a 20 month old and a 4 month old in the same span that I've been ttc. another friend who started ttc the same month I did just had her baby this month . . . .the list goes on and on.

    I'm sorry.

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    Ugh, that does suck.
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  • epona3epona3 member

    I def. know how you feel!  My BFF started TTC around the same time, and she used to be the one I could call when I was feeling down, b/c it took them a year.  Now that she's pg I can barely talk to her, b/c being pg is all she can talk about (she's not my most sensitive friend...)  It sucks that it affects our friendships this way, on top of how hard TTC (and especially TTCAL) already is...

    BEAR HUGS to you!

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  • redshoegirlredshoegirl member
    Ugh. I know how you feel. I started TTCing at the same time as a few other friends, and now they're all in their second or third trimesters and I'm just sitting on the sidelines. Sad
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  • StrunellaStrunella member
    Ugh.  That does really stink.  We just have to try to remain positive and know that our time will come soon. 
     
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  • NiceAsstraNiceAsstra member
    That stinks.  I'm sorry.
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