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Finally got my BFP after 1.5 years

Peach&FireworksPeach&Fireworks member
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DH and I had a missed m/c in Feb 2008 and I have been so nervous to TTC again since then.  We kept coming up with excuses like "oh well Vegas is next month, let's wait til after that", "football season is coming, let's wait til after that", etc.

I'm so excited but so nervous too.  Any advice on just enjoying this and not stressing?   

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Re: Finally got my BFP after 1.5 years

  • Lisa10eLisa10e

    How exciting, Congrats!! As for not stressing try to keep your mind off things. I really had to allow myself no free time in the beginning or my mind would start running. Keep yourself busy. GL and Welcome!!

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  • jen10282006jen10282006
    Congrats to You!!!!!!   The nervousness will follow you for a while, but try to relax and enjoy that today you are pregnant and you love your baby!  Welcome to the board!
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  • ceramseyceramsey
    Congrats and welcome!
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  • CapeFall2006CapeFall2006
    I totally hear you.  I had a missed miscarriage in December 2007 and didn't try again until December 2008.  We were so fortunate to get pregnant again right away, but I would be lying if I said the first 12 weeks weren't extremely difficult.  All you can really do is try and stay positive, and remember that this is an entirely different pregnancy.  And try to take strength from your little angel who is watching over you.  Congratulations!
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  • Peach&FireworksPeach&Fireworks member
    Thanks ladies!  After we decided to TTC again, it only took us like 2 months.  I am just trying to remain hopeful and enjoy each day.
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  • beaner628beaner628
    Congrats. Lots of luck to you!
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  • carasizemorecarasizemore member

    Congrats!

    As far as not stressing I'm trying to figure that out myself as well!  I just keep trying to stay busy!

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  • RJHarmonRJHarmon member
    Congrats and welcome.  Try and relax...what will happen will happen.  I know...easier said then done!

    1st pregnancy: m/c began 1/12/09 d&c 1/13/09 8wks. Baby stopped growing at about 6wks.

    Delaney: Born 10/15/09

    Gavin: Born 4/8/11

    Baby #3: due July 10, 2014

     

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  • gallerygirlgallerygirl member

    Congratulations!!!

    Yes, stay busy and try to focus on positive thoughts!

    bfp #1 - 8/17/2008, natural m/c 8/25/2008, EDD 4/21/2009 bfp #2 - 10/6/2008, hb stopped at 7 w 3 d, d&e on 11/7/2008, EDD 6/19/2009 bfp #3- 3/14/2009.... stick, baby, stick!!!! (14 dpo - hcg 188, 16 dpo - hcg 421, 24 dpo - hcg 14,760!, 4/2 healthy HB of 130 bpm, 4/16 HB of 178 bpm!) bfp #4- 2/2/2011, EDD 10/17/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker a bfing, cding, wah momma Congrats to my buddies Tiffanylaw06, Jeny M & burghbaby!
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  • Babs022Babs022 member
    Congrats and welcome!! 
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  • MarisaCMarisaC
    congrats, just take things one day at a time
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  • mustangcutiemustangcutie
    Congrats!!!  take it one day at a time!!! Every PG is different! 
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  • csquared425csquared425
    Congrats to you and DH - that is so exciting!!!  And welcome to the April Mommies club!!! 
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  • mrstyson03mrstyson03
    Wow! Congratulations on your BFP! I'm not the best at not stressing, but I try to ust take one day at a time. Repeating the SAL mantras helps too. All the best!
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  • nferrantenferrante
    Congrats!!! I just have faith! I believe everything happens for a reason and enjoy your pregnancy! Your pregnant today and you love your baby! oxox
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