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tell me what to do...

soontobecapeksoontobecapek member
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my sister and I aren't talking.... basically she thinks I am being childish because I told her I don't want her or her boyfriend around my son or my home because her BF is a drug dealer and they are both heavily into drugs and alcohol... I haven't talked to her or seen her in almost a month, but she just had a miscarriage... Do I call her up or leave things the way they are? If I call her, what do I say? I still don't want her around my child...... I wish I didn't care so much... The person she has become I hate, but she was still raised as my sister...
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Re: tell me what to do...

  • brightningbrightning member

    How about sending a card? I probably would just put "Sorry for your loss" and not anything about her unfortunate lifestyle choices.

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  • Sept17.05BrideSept17.05Bride
    imagebrightning:

    How about sending a card? I probably would just put "Sorry for your loss" and not anything about her unfortunate lifestyle choices.

    I think this is a great idea.

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  • swtmelyswtmely
    I would make a wuick call just to say "sorry for your loss". I also like the card idea, a little unpersonal but due to the circumstances, appropriate.
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  • jessicada76jessicada76
    I would call - she is still your sister - and even though you have had or have your differences - at this time she might just need to hear your voice! 
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  • abpdjsabpdjs
    imagebrightning:

    How about sending a card? I probably would just put "Sorry for your loss" and not anything about her unfortunate lifestyle choices.

    ditto.

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  • futureMrsVfutureMrsV member
    I agree with everyone - make some sort of contact...whatever YOU are most comfortable with.  You may always disagree - especially about life choices, you may always have a strained relationship and you may always have to be the one to re-establish contact but she is your sister.  Family is so very important, and her loss must be breaking her heart.  Contact from you could be the kick in the pants and the comfort she needs.  Good luck. 
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  • Jess0823Jess0823

    imagefutureMrsV:
    I agree with everyone - make some sort of contact...whatever YOU are most comfortable with.  You may always disagree - especially about life choices, you may always have a strained relationship and you may always have to be the one to re-establish contact but she is your sister.  Family is so very important, and her loss must be breaking her heart.  Contact from you could be the kick in the pants and the comfort she needs.  Good luck. 

    Ditto!

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