I like Brett for a girl. ?I don't like either middle name though- both are very trendy and overused, imo. ?Plus, Brett Riley sounds very masculine. ?I'd go with something very classic and feminine as a middle name.
I don't like Wesley for a girl.
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YUCK! YUCK! and more YUCK!!!
Those are totally boy names- why do that to your child since they're not even considered unisex. Just another reason it's so hard to name boys now days- my hubby would not even consider names that could be used on girls and the trend is growing. I wanted to name this baby Tyler or Wesley if it were a BOY.There are SOOOO many cute names for girls out there- I say keep at it!
Try Britt. Wesley and Brett suck for a girl. People will be looking for a boy, expecting a boy, and then your pretty girl will stand up and be, yeah, it's me. I'm a girl with a boy name.
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I actually like Brett. Wesley is not unisex in my opinion. I'm not a fan of the middle name choices with Brett though. I think something more feminine would be better.
Well, if this one is a boy his name will be Wesley so I'm sorry, I'm not a fan of it for a girl. I like the idea of Britt or Kelsey. What about Lesley?
Neither. Do you like any of your middle name choices enough to consider them as first names? (FWIW, I don't even really like unisex names for girls, so I definitely have a problem with masculine names for girls.)
Wait- so with the name Brett you would use a boy middle name, too? Wow, at least balance it out with a girl name!
Anyway, I agree with those that said these sound like total boy names, not unisex names (and I do like several unisex names). I have heard of Brett for a girl but don't love it and it still sounds boyish to me. But if I had to choose, I would go with Brett over Wesley. Not even sure I like Wesley for a girl.
No. Those are not girl names. At all. Especially Wesley. Wesley Jane or Wesley Mae sounds like a transgendered person who got stuck halfway through.
And while I can *almost* see Brett for a girl, it would really, really need a super feminine middle name. Brett Olivia, Brett Samantha, Brett Theresa are all *almost* okay. (But they aren't really okay because Brett is a boy's name.)
Those aren't even close to unisex names. Yuck. Please, for her sake, don't do it.
This. Have you thought about how you would have felt if your parents gave you a decidedly masculine name? It's just not a nice thing to do to your child.
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Wait, what?! This is just getting out of control. Those are definitely boy names. I think I'd have trouble not rolling my eyes if I heard of/met a girl IRL w/ either of those names.
Why aren't traditionally girl names good enough for your baby? Would you consider naming a son Jane or Emily? For the love of god, please don't name your daughter Wesley unless you want people to make fun of her name and assume it's a boy.
Are you tryingto make a pseudo feminist statement because I do not understand your reasoning.
Personally, I like girl names for girls, and boy names for boys. There are a few that have been used interchangably lately, and it bothers me. I remember there was a girl in my elementary school named Corey (and I was obsessed with the two Coreys when I was little, yes I'm showing my age), and EVERYONE thought she was a boy on the first day of school. She had short hair, the whole bit. Looking back, I feel bad.
Brett and Wesley are strictly masculine to me. Sorry. Maybe think of names that have a unisex nn? (Josephine to Jo, or Michaela to Mike, or Alexandra to Alex ...)
ew no no no. Both are such strong male names..please don't ruin them by naming your little girl one of those. I feel the same way when people want to name their little boys girl names like Ashley and what not - it's just weird.
On the another note though - I like the middle names...can't you decide to go with one of those?
I can't imagine looking down at a beautiful baby girl and saying Wesley or Brett. I do not understand why people don't want beautiful names for their beautiful daughters.
And you know that some mean kid is going to tell her that her parents really wanted a boy and that is how she got her name.
in the end, your kid, your business but I suggest you keep looking.
Try Britt. Wesley and Brett suck for a girl. People will be looking for a boy, expecting a boy, and then your pretty girl will stand up and be, yeah, it's me. I'm a girl with a boy name.
Keep looking. The only name I like for a girl is Shane, but even then it needs a VERY feminine middle name to pull it off. My neice is Shane Elisabeth.
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No. Neither. Keep thinking. There are very few masculine names that I think are ok and the only one that comes to mind is Ryan. There are so many good girl names out there, it's not fair to name a girl Brett or Wesley and have to let her deal with being teased.
I love boy names for girls, if we have a girl, she is definitely getting a boys name....most likely ryanne, or shayne, or jordan??? but i do like brette.
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I like Brett for a girl. ?I don't like either middle name though- both are very trendy and overused, imo. ?Plus, Brett Riley sounds very masculine. ?I'd go with something very classic and feminine as a middle name.
I don't like Wesley for a girl.
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anderson . september 2008
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Samantha Skye - Aug 30, 2006 AND Maxwell Griffin - April 14, 2009
I have a girl friend named Brette with the "e"... makes it a bit more feminine. I've always liked it that way.
I think both are too masculine for a girl, especially the traditional Wesley.
Wait- so with the name Brett you would use a boy middle name, too? Wow, at least balance it out with a girl name!
Anyway, I agree with those that said these sound like total boy names, not unisex names (and I do like several unisex names). I have heard of Brett for a girl but don't love it and it still sounds boyish to me. But if I had to choose, I would go with Brett over Wesley. Not even sure I like Wesley for a girl.
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No. Those are not girl names. At all. Especially Wesley. Wesley Jane or Wesley Mae sounds like a transgendered person who got stuck halfway through.
And while I can *almost* see Brett for a girl, it would really, really need a super feminine middle name. Brett Olivia, Brett Samantha, Brett Theresa are all *almost* okay. (But they aren't really okay because Brett is a boy's name.)
This. Have you thought about how you would have felt if your parents gave you a decidedly masculine name? It's just not a nice thing to do to your child.
Why aren't traditionally girl names good enough for your baby? Would you consider naming a son Jane or Emily?
For the love of god, please don't name your daughter Wesley unless you want people to make fun of her name and assume it's a boy.
Are you tryingto make a pseudo feminist statement because I do not understand your reasoning.
Ditto
Personally, I like girl names for girls, and boy names for boys. There are a few that have been used interchangably lately, and it bothers me. I remember there was a girl in my elementary school named Corey (and I was obsessed with the two Coreys when I was little, yes I'm showing my age), and EVERYONE thought she was a boy on the first day of school. She had short hair, the whole bit. Looking back, I feel bad.
Brett and Wesley are strictly masculine to me. Sorry. Maybe think of names that have a unisex nn? (Josephine to Jo, or Michaela to Mike, or Alexandra to Alex ...)
ew no no no. Both are such strong male names..please don't ruin them by naming your little girl one of those. I feel the same way when people want to name their little boys girl names like Ashley and what not - it's just weird.
On the another note though - I like the middle names...can't you decide to go with one of those?
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I can't imagine looking down at a beautiful baby girl and saying Wesley or Brett. I do not understand why people don't want beautiful names for their beautiful daughters.
And you know that some mean kid is going to tell her that her parents really wanted a boy and that is how she got her name.
in the end, your kid, your business but I suggest you keep looking.
Brett is only vaugely unisex, Wesley is flat-out considered a boy's name. I'd keep looking.
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Leave some names for the boys!!!!!!!!!!!!