I am 10 week pg with my second child and I want advice on how to breastfeed longer then I did the first time. I breastfeed my DD for the first 5 1/2 months. I would like to go longer with this baby. I work full time and was able to pump 3 times a day at work. But I was never able to get enough for a full day. Before I went back to work I had over 300 oz frozen which really help me breastfeed as long as I did. This issue I had was when I first whet back to work I could get 18 oz when I was at work but my DD would drink 20oz. I always felt like I was short a few oz. By the end of the 5 1/2 months each time I pumped I was lucky if I got 2oz so finally I went to pumping once a day. By the end of it I gave up. I felt so guilty and wished I could have gone longer. How can I increase my supply so I can breastfeed long.
Re: Looking for breastfeeding advice
It's as easy as supply and demand. If you feed and pump enough, you will produce enough. I haven't had supply issues, but never pumped either.
Is there a La Leche League chapter close to you? They are AMAZING!!!!
In my experience, I never took the position of "i must ALWAYS send X amount" to the extreme. If I pumped 18 oz, I would SEND 18 oz :-) I think this is a major reason I have nursed 2 kids as long as I have and worked full time. I also think there is a lack of understanding about how much to bottle feed a BF baby vs a formula fed baby and it seems to be the breastfeeding death of so many moms I see on this board!
Just like you, baby's hunger will be different day to day and meal to meal. Now, if you ever have a streak where there is major difference, then personally, I would add a pumping session at night and/or then I would tap into my freezer stash.
It's important to remember a couple of key points...most babies purposely reverse cycle when mom is at work...meaning they will take less during the workday and make up for it when actually with mom & at night. Additionally, it is SO important to NOT overfeed - - very very very easy to do with a bottle as baby can NOT turn off the flow of liquid. A baby at the breast can be "sucking" but not "nursing". Not true at a bottle. Check out kellymom.com for charts on the max stomach capacity of an infant at different ages. Also review https://www.workandpump.com/ for lots of good tips. Finanally, yes, it is supply and demand. While 1 missed or late pumping session will not kill your supply, you do have to commit to sticking with the pumping regularly while away from baby.