Back from WTF appt.

PrincessShay80 · August 2009

Our RE really feels we just fell on the wrong side of the fence this time. Great, thats very promising! He said he does believe I was actually pregnant for all of 48 hours, but that something was just not right with the embryo. He wants to do another IVF- DH and I would love to do another one, but we are just exhausted at this point ( we have done 2 IVF's in 4 months) We also discussed going the Donor Sperm IUI route- since DH has such terrible sperm and there doesnt seem to be anything wrong with me.

Also the icing on the cake was that we have used up all our IF coverage on DH's insurance so IVF #3 would be OOP- so we need to come up with the money if we are going to proceed with the IVF. We are serioulsy considereing adoption at this point, or maybe goind ahead with the DIUI's since the IUI's are covered under my insurnace at 100%- I wish I could use my insurance for IVF, but unfortunately they only cover IUI's. So overall I am kinda blah right now, Im just so tired of this.

2006july15bride · August 2009

I am so sorry. Being that you are exhausted maybe you shouldn't make any decisions just now. When your mind is clear weigh your options. If the experience of being pregnant is really important to you chance the DIUI...if being pregnant is not something you will miss then start the adoption process. You could even start the process and try the DIUI. I wish you luck whichever route you choose.

MrsKario · August 2009

Oh hon, Im so sorry. WTF apts are so draining.

I would take a few days off from thinking about all of this. 2 IVFs in 4 months is a lot to deal with. After a week or so you might be better able to talk about things and come up with a plan. Good luck with whatever you decide. Sending hugs

jehnm · August 2009

I just wish there was no such thing as IF!! I agree that you have been through a lot and exhausted probably puts it mildly!! The only way to recover is to give yourself time and hopefully the right decision will become clear! I'm completely OOP for everything so I feel the money drain with ya!!

I wish only the best for you!!

LALASEPT05 · August 2009

I'm so sorry that you didn't get more answers from your RE. I don't blame you for taking some time off...2 IVF's in 4 months is a lot. The process is so emotional and the highs are so high and the lows are so low. I think some times taking time off is good.

terraflora · August 2009

It all sounds so overwhelming. It's like you get these options put in front of you that all kind of suck and you just think- "how did this get to be MY life?"

I'm so sorry that it didn't work and that you have to go through this. It seems like taking a little break might help, like others said. Take care this weekend and good luck to you.

sescms2004 · August 2009

I am so very sorry. I've been thinking about you all week. I remember you did a single embryo transfer.....did you have any frosties?

You've been through a lot....I don't blame you for taking some time to clear your minds and regain some peace and sanity. ((Hugs)) to you.

gringa78 · August 2009

Oh honey, I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this. I hope you and DH have some time to grieve and rest before you start up again.

Thinking of you! and thank you for all your support in the past few days - I appreciate it more than you know....and you were going through your own awful shiit. ((HUGS))

wiscgirl95 · August 2009

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Take some time to process and recover. ((HUGS))

Want a personalized experience?

Back from WTF appt.

Re: Back from WTF appt.

Choose Another Board

Search Boards