Last night, we were at a dinner party, sitting on the couch chatting with 2 other couples while their kids played. A little girl (11 months), fell over, and looked like she was about to cry, so DH looked at her for a second, and then picked her up. I was shocked! He never touches other peoples kids- he doesn't really like most of them. I almost started crying it was so sweet, and it made me realize what a great father he is going to be!
I'm naturally really good with kids, and DH doesn't think he is (even though they all love him, he isn't comfortable around them) and so little things like this make me so happy : )
What makes you realize your DH will be a good daddy?
Re: AW: DH and a baby
all of our friends who have kids, my fiance plays with them for hours on end. He sits and reads with them, plays outside, and really interacts with them rather than just sort of ignoring them. I hope he's so hands on with ours!
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2007-Sept 2008: TTC the old fashioned way
Sept 2008 - Jan 2009: Clomid 100mg
Feb 2009: 200mg Clomid = BFP! on March 20, 2009 - It's a BOY!
Nov 26th 2009: Aidan Michael, 20.5" 7lb12oz
Feb 2010: Start TTC again, the old fashioned way
Mar - June 2011: Clomid 100mg
July 2011: Unmedicated cycle = BFP! on August 29th, 2011
Nov 6th 2011: m/c due to subchorionic hematoma
Dec 2011: Start TTC again, unmedicated
February 12th, 2012: BFP! EDD 10/23/12
Mar 12th 2012: diagnosed as blighted ovum
Trying again..
I know my DH will be a great father by the way he interacts with our 8 nieces and nephews. He really plays with them and pays attention to them. And I can tell by the way he treats our dog.
I do think he will be scared by diaper changes, how to feed and holding such a fragile tiny baby at first. But once he does those things a few times I know he will get more comfortable.
I'm usually the one that never touches other people's kids... my DH is better with other people's kids than I am!