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Sooo how do you remain positive but not get your hopes

raskind17raskind17 member
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Re: Sooo how do you remain positive but not get your hopes

  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    when you find out, let me know!

    no, really. for me it's about continuing to be realistic. reality tells me that there is still hope. there is possibility, chance and better luck. reality tells me that all of my testing yielded no bad news -- so that means there is still hope. at the same time, reality has taught me (twice) that things don't always work out in this game . . . so it's such a mixed bag. all I know is that I still want to try. we still want a family of our own, and for now, we will keep up the hope. 

     

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • xleslieraexxleslieraex member
    I listen to country music, one of my new favs is "Sounds Like Life to Me." Kinda my new motto. Everyone is going through something tough. Even if you think what they have is nothing on what you have, it's life, and it's not always easy.
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  • JenyMJenyM member
    imagemlmtgg:

    when you find out, let me know!

    This.

    But, I'm not positive. I guess I can't get my hopes up that way.

    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
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  • katie9136katie9136
    smoke a doobie so you think about something else?????
    Missed MC 1 - 11/21/2006 Missed MC 2 - 03/10/2008 BFP # 3 09/18/09 - Gabriel David born 05/11/2010 baby
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  • JenyMJenyM member

    imagekatie9136:
    smoke a doobie so you think about something else?????

    LMFAO! 

     

    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
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  • DandNclarkDandNclark

    imagekatie9136:
    smoke a doobie so you think about something else?????

    This and deep breathing.

    Seriously though I wish I new how to not be stressed about it. 

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  • xleslieraexxleslieraex member
    imageDandNclark:

    imagekatie9136:
    smoke a doobie so you think about something else?????

    This and deep breathing.

    Seriously though I wish I new how to not be stressed about it. 

    Wouldn't you then be thinking about eating???

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  • raskind17raskind17 member
    imageJenyM:
    imagemlmtgg:

    when you find out, let me know!

    This.

    But, I'm not positive. I guess I can't get my hopes up that way.

    Me too.

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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member
    imageJenyM:
    imagemlmtgg:

    when you find out, let me know!

    This.

    But, I'm not positive. I guess I can't get my hopes up that way.

    All this. After three losses I'm just not sure it's ever going to happen again.  This is some life lesson, I'm not sure what, but it sucks.

    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    imagekatie9136:
    smoke a doobie so you think about something else?????

    This! why didn't I think of this before waxing poetically with my response (which is still true -- but I like this idea better!)??

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • raskind17raskind17 member
    imagemlmtgg:

    imagekatie9136:
    smoke a doobie so you think about something else?????

    This! why didn't I think of this before waxing poetically with my response (which is still true -- but I like this idea better!)??

    LMFAO~~

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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    Ive just decided to not let my hopes get up anymore. Next time I get a BFP, I'm just going to assume it'll end the same way, and that way I'll be expecting it and maybe it'll be less of a blow. Besides, there's nothing I can do about it anyway.
    Clicky ticky
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