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Did you pick out your engagement/wedding ring?

Saw a clip from bridezilla's where the bride to be is going off on the groom to be for the wedding band he picked out...got me curious, was yours a surprise?

Re: Did you pick out your engagement/wedding ring?

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    DH picked out the engagement ring, but I picked out the band when the time came.
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    REOMREOM member
    Yes, mine was a surprise. It is beautiful, and I love that my H picked it out himself. I would have picked a simple solitare, but he went all out. Love it.
    DD1 12.18.06 DD2 9.18.08 DD3 EDD 5.10.2012 BabyFruit Ticker
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    We were traditional. He picked out the engagement ring and we both picked out the wedding bands (to match).

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    I have 2 engagement rings (one I wear as a right hand ring now) and  I picked them both, as well as my wedding ring.
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    I provided input no the engagement ring (i.e. specifics such as carat weight, type of metal, stone shape, etc), but he picked it out. However, I did pick out my wedding band. No surprise there.
    ~Erica, Mommy to Peyton 9/06 & Cullen 9/09
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    He picked out the engagement ring, but we picked out both of our wedding rings together.
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    Annelise 3.22.2007 Norah 10.24.2009 Amelia 8.7.2011
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    DH picked out my engagement ring (he had a general idea of what I liked). We picked out both of our wedding bands together.
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    DH picked out the engagement ring, but I picked out the band when the time came.

    Ditto.

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    I sent him pictures of rings that I liked and he took all of that input and designed one himself.  I love that it is absolutely one-of-a-kind!
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    He picked out my e-ring.  I picked out the band.

    I love bridezillas.

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    I provided input no the engagement ring (i.e. specifics such as carat weight, type of metal, stone shape, etc), but he picked it out. However, I did pick out my wedding band. No surprise there.

    Ditto!  I want a new wedding band though.  UPGRADE UPGRADE.  

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    I chose my own engagement ring and wedding bands.  He chose his.  I wasn't a bridezilla, though!
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    DH picked it out.  I don't think it was a secret what I liked, but I was surprised he proposed as quickly as he did, so the ring was totally impressive.

    That said, the ring he proposed with was the diamond (his family's jeweler already had it set in a FUGLY yellow gold band, and since DH was air force, and was spending 3 out of every 4 weeks in the middle east, he didn't have the flexibility of time to get it reset....the band he proposed with was NOT what we kept.

    I loved what he chose, and what i had two weeks later, though.

    I still haven't found a wedding band (and am on my 2nd) that I love with the setting, though...

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    imageGoose51504:
    I provided input no the engagement ring (i.e. specifics such as carat weight, type of metal, stone shape, etc), but he picked it out. However, I did pick out my wedding band. No surprise there.

    Ditto!  I want a new wedding band though.  UPGRADE UPGRADE.  

    I'm fine with both my band and e-ring (e-ring was actually upgraded 3 years ago). However, I just want more diamonds...period. LOL

    ~Erica, Mommy to Peyton 9/06 & Cullen 9/09
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    herohero member
    I picked out my own ring and the stone that is set in it. He picked out his own band. We have completely different taste in jewelry.
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    imageGoose51504:
    I provided input no the engagement ring (i.e. specifics such as carat weight, type of metal, stone shape, etc), but he picked it out. However, I did pick out my wedding band. No surprise there.

    Ditto!  I want a new wedding band though.  UPGRADE UPGRADE.  

    I'm fine with both my band and e-ring (e-ring was actually upgraded 3 years ago). However, I just want more diamonds...period. LOL

    I'm cool with my e-ring, but I don't love my wedding band (mostly the style).  I want it changed and bigger diamonds.  I am pro-diamond though so I wouldn't mind more diamonds.  I already told Jeff to start saving for my 30th.  I want a fat sapphire ring.  Like 5 carats or something.  I mean it's a sapphire, they're cheaper than diamonds, right?  LOL.

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    imageeclaires:

    imageGoose51504:
    I provided input no the engagement ring (i.e. specifics such as carat weight, type of metal, stone shape, etc), but he picked it out. However, I did pick out my wedding band. No surprise there.

    Ditto!  I want a new wedding band though.  UPGRADE UPGRADE.  

    ditto all of that!

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    DH wanted the proposal to be a surprise, so he didn't seek any input from me and bought the diamond himself and had it put in a temp setting to propose.  Then I picked out the actual setting (which is super plain).  We picked out our wedding rings together.
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    imageeclaires:

    imageGoose51504:
    I provided input no the engagement ring (i.e. specifics such as carat weight, type of metal, stone shape, etc), but he picked it out. However, I did pick out my wedding band. No surprise there.

    Ditto!  I want a new wedding band though.  UPGRADE UPGRADE.  

    I'm fine with both my band and e-ring (e-ring was actually upgraded 3 years ago). However, I just want more diamonds...period. LOL

    I'm cool with my e-ring, but I don't love my wedding band (mostly the style).  I want it changed and bigger diamonds.  I am pro-diamond though so I wouldn't mind more diamonds.  I already told Jeff to start saving for my 30th.  I want a fat sapphire ring.  Like 5 carats or something.  I mean it's a sapphire, they're cheaper than diamonds, right?  LOL.

    Exactly. Now that I think about it, I want bigger diamonds in my wedding band, too. Big Smile I have a three carat eternity band, but I'm thinking something a la Jessica Simpson, when she was married to Nick Lachey.

    And, ditto the sapphire. I pray, pray, pray (for many reasons) that Cullen doesn't arrive until September. However, I selfishly want both of kids to have sapphire birth stones. That way, DH will have no choice but to buy me the biggest sapphire he can find. And, natch, it will be set with some sort of diamonds.

    ~Erica, Mommy to Peyton 9/06 & Cullen 9/09
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    H picked out the original engagement ring, but the diamond wouldn't stay secure in the setting so we designed a new one together.  We designed our bands together as well.
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    total surprise...but I have 9 other fingers that could use rings (and ears and wrists and a neck)....so I'm cool with my ring (well, I love it anyways.)
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    I picked both and I'm glad I did.
    Dee Dee DS Elijah Xin 3/11/05 DD Evangeline Mei 8/24/06
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    Long story but, yes, I picked it. I wear one ring (never had an engagement ring as well as a wedding ring).

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    I picked it out.  I'm not good with surprises.

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    I didn't have an engagement ring, but I picked out my wedding ring.
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    I'm cheapy mccheappants.  DH had proposed with no ring.  And I didn't want an expensive ring.  So I picked out a ring I liked at JCPenneys while I was working there and got my discount, lol.

    We each picked out our own wedding bands there and got my discount too.  But DH is on his 2nd band as the first one flew off his hand while we were playing volleyball in the pool one year and we never found it.

    My rings are small and cheap but I love them.  Sounds really tacky but its how I roll, lol.

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    For the e-ring I picked the setting then DH picked the stone.  I picked my own wedding band.  I knew DH would not choose a ring that was my style and I was right... he thought it should be fancier whereas I'm a total minimalist when it comes to fashion and wanted a very simple solitaire.  He would have chosen something like his sister's with his mother and sisters help and their style is sooooo different from mine.  He always says he's thankful I didn't want to be surprised because of that.
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