TTC After a Loss

~*~*~Ladies in waiting*~*~*~

This is group designed for all the ladies in the various stages of waiting after a loss: waiting to miscarry, waiting for AF to arrive, waiting to TTC again, and waiting for BFP.

 

*Since this process is such a true test in patience, it is nice to have the support and friendship of other women going through similar experiences and emotions

 

*If you would like to be added to the list please post your name and your goal. There will be a daily question, a place for prayer requests and a daily inspirational verse.

 

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Good afternoon ladies. I know I?m a day late on posting this, but yesterday was a ?required vacation day? on my trip, so DH and I took of sight seeing and antiquing.

Congrads to sunset love, ping1080 and Sweetnevaeh4 that both got their BFPs!!  Krate24?I haven?t been online, any updates for you?  Sorry AF is playing games with you.  Meggr8, glad you were able to start ttc early than expected?I hope your wait is short!  Are you and Becka1208 still testing this weekend?  GL to you both!!!  meganl98, when do you think you?re gonna test?  Mlmtgg, sorry you?re having a weird cycle, you figure out where you are yet?

 

I got a lot of great laughs our of the irrational fears.  Some I would have never thought of?balloons, birds, stairs/escalators, butter knives.  1stTimeMommy2Be?.I loved your story?.I?m sure the kids had a great time with that?.your lucky if they didn?t set you up with lizards after they figured our your fear J  Candycane3t, I normally don?t have problems with mice, but I think I would have freaked out if one crawled in the shower with me!!!

 

May God Bless you all!

 

Inspirational Verse:

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:5-6

 

Prayer Request/s: (new requests in red)
- The girls that are currently going through a loss.
- The girls on PL board that sadly join us daily..

-  Cowgirl - that she can get back to a "good place" and have the patience to get thru this TTC process. 

- All the new BFP ladies ? that they have sticky babies and a H&H 9 months!

 

Question of the day:

I?ll have an easier question today, I?ve spent the past 4 days in Pheniox, AX with 115deg weather.  So my question is, would you rather be somewhere extreamly hot or extreamly cold.  As an example, something like Death Valley, CA vs International Falls, MN?

 

Ladies in waiting to Try again..

Pretty.Amazing.Grace?waiting to mc

Addicted2thenot?waiting for AF

Bcn68?.waiting for greenlight
Eviebee Waiting to ttc in August.
Jojojojo?waiting til September to TTC
KateandMark?waiting to TTC in August

Kazpin?waiting for AF

krate24?waiting to TTC in September

lax15bsu?waiting for AF

MrsEzStar?waiting to TTC in August
Sinisterkat.. TTC next cycle

Smith2009?waiting to TTC in September

Sweetsarahsmiley?reluctantly waiting to TTC

Vkbaby09?waiting to TTC in Aug/Sept

Wickedsugar?waiting to TTC in September


Ladies in waiting for BFP?s

1stTimeMommy2Be?waiting for BFP

ACM1616...waiting to O
Ade2be?waiting for BFP
Alwyzbsy?waiting to O

Becka1208?waiting for BFP

Belovedcaramel?waiting to O
Bostonfingerlakes07...waiting to O
~Bren~?..waiting to O

Browniris?waiting for BFP

Candlcraze?waiting for BFP

Candycane3t?waiting for BFP
carasizemo...waiting for BFP

Cedge05?waiting for BFP

Cfwinston?waiting for BFP

Cindybaf?.waiting for BFP
Cowgirl?waiting for BFP
Dansgrl05?waiting for BFP

Dkfitz07...waiting for BFP
Futureevans?waiting to O

Hbikes?waiting for BFP

Irishsapphire?waiting for BFP
Jacquiemark?.waiting to O

Jump4Jen?.waiting for BFP

Katie9136?waiting to O

L2theC42?waiting for BFP

meganl98?waiting for BFP

megjr8 ?.waiting for BFP

Mia07?.waiting for BFP
Mlmtgg?.waiting to O

Momagain2009..waiting for BFP

Mrs.EmmaLouise..waiting to O

Mrs.PinkPearls?waiting for BFP

Nmeandwjh?waiting for BFP
OhDanna?.waiting to O
PeetiePie?waiting for BFP
Redshoegirl?waiting to O
Sept0107bride?waiting to O

Smtaylor?waiting for BFP

Soontobemrsvega?waiting for BFP
Spldbrt?..waiting to O
str8ota?waiting for BFP

SweetSarahSmiley?waiting for BFP

Teppy2008?waiting to O

TMS8126?.waiting for BFP

Uagirl?waiting to O

Recent graduates..

4thofJulyWedding?April 4th, 2010

AB&TB?.April 2nd, 2010

Bl2007?..March 2010

Blondie223?March 2010

Itsmsalbin..March 2010

Jen-dale?.March 2010

Knelli??March 29, 2010

Ljsmith?March 2010

Nemattox?March 2010

Ping1080?April 3, 2010

Scooter999...March 2010

sunset love????

Sweetnevaeh4????

sue&Pasqual?March 2010

WearingRed?April 2, 2010

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  • I have now started AF so it's a new cycle filled with new hope right? 

    I live in central CA and it's over 100 degrees.  I don't mind too much.  I don't think I can do very cold.  I have been in Montana when it was 10 degrees and I know it can get much colder but I am such a baby and was complaining the whole time.

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  • I'm still in limbo. If I haven't O'ed, I'm sure its way too late in the cycle.

    QOTD: I've actually been to both Death Valley in the middle of summer and International Falls in the winter (my job requires we find "extreme weather") and I will say without a doubt that I'll take the extreme cold over the hot.  With cold, if you dress warm enough, no issues.  With hot, there's only so much you can do!!!!

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  • I'd like to join!  I'm waiting for a BFP.  Answer to your question, I would rather be someplace extremely hot - but that could change. . my office is really cold!
  • *sigh* no updates for me.

    QOTD: That's tough!  I think I'd have to go with cold and then take up some winter activities.  With extreme heat, you can't do anything outside! 

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  • I'm waiting for my BFP now.

    QOTD: That's hard, but given the recent heat here and lack of a/c, I'll go with extreme cold.

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  • No updates!!

    QOTD: I love hot weather. Well as long as theres a beach! I love the sun and everything about it. I do like the cold but I hate being bundled up.

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  • I'm still waiting for BFP.

    I think I would rather deal with the heat.  DH is from upper peninsula and I just remember last winter being up there and it's -12 and the dogs not being able to put their paws on the ground because it was so cold, they looked like little tripods hopping around trying to balance.

    krate's over on BOTB today, I'm sure she's going back & forth between the boards.

  • Im still waiting to O!

    QOTD:  Well, since I already live in alaska, I'll go with somewhere freakishly hot.  Because you guys have A/C right?  If theres no A/C i'll stick with alaska.

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    krate's over on BOTB today, I'm sure she's going back & forth between the boards.

    I always bounce back and forth now.  And lurk on a few other boards.  I'm a board whore, what can I say!  :)

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  • I am waiting for a BFP!

    QOTD: That is a hard choice. As long as I had a pool, I could do the hot. Then again you can only take off so many clothes, so maybe the cold.

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  • I am waiting for my BFP. 

    QOTD- I would like to be somewhere it is hot... I dont like the cold for very long.

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    imagestr8ota:

    krate's over on BOTB today, I'm sure she's going back & forth between the boards.

    I always bounce back and forth now.  And lurk on a few other boards.  I'm a board whore, what can I say!  :)

    My stupid edit button didn't work.  As soon as I posted I saw your post and said you beat me to the post...if that all makes sense.

  • I guess put me to waiting for BFP -- don't know what happened to O this month. .

     

    qotd: HOT for sure. I live in the cold!

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  • no update here

    QOTD = I would definitely rather be in hot than cold, I went to Thailand for a month for our honeymoon and it was 100+ the whole time.....we left our family here in Canada where the average temp is -22f most of the winter however while we were away it got down to -58F with the windchill.......too cold for me!

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  • Can I be added?  I was on this board before my last bfp, but I was never part of this group.  I am now waiting to TTCAL for a couple months after this most recent m/c, and I will find out for sure how long my Dr. wants us to wait at my appt on the 4th.  My guess is October or November.  :-(   I will be looking into starting Metformin for my PCOS, so that may delay is a little longer if we have to "wait and see" what effect that has and whether or not it restores regular cycles for me.

    Thank you!

    Edit:  QOTD:  I actually live in the Phoenix, AZ area and I love it here!  Yes it is super hot for about 4 months out of the year, but the fall, winter and spring are sooo nice!! 

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    8/09 Dx w/Compound Hetero MTHFR--Neevo, Metanx & BA
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  • I'm eschall and I am waiting to O. I'm on CD 7 now and should O next week.

    QOTD: Living in Olympia where we had record highs all week, I would rather live someplace cooler.  It is easier to warm up than cool off. I'm sick of being sweaty and sticky and all DH wants to do is cuddle.  Dripping sweat is not a turn on for me!

  • Hi! Please add me as "waiting for BFP". Thanks!  If I had to choose, I would definitely rather be where the weather is extremely hot. 
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    I would also like to join please.  I am on CD 11 of my first "can try again" cycle. 

    I moved from NY to SC to be in the warmth so I will take warmth anyday! 

  • I'm waiting to O (and new to this list!)

    QOTD:  I grew up in the heat and love the heat and can only take cold weather for about one or two weeks a year.  I love a ski vacation, but having to live in cold, snowy, icy weather is just not for me.   So, heat it is!! 

  • I've decided to wait until Sunday to test, with everyone else testing!

    QOTD:  I don't do well with heat, so I'll take a cold place! I live in VA so we get the best of both worlds, but we have A/C so it makes the heat tolerable.

  • Hi,

    Well I'm not waiting for a BFP. I just did back to back IUI's with 5 follicles released, so I'm really hoping at least one of them takes.

    I would rather live where it was cold because at least you can put layers on to get warm.

  • I live in Indiana, and I have to say I love the weather here.  We get the cold winters, the steamy summers, and everything in between.  But I couldn't live where it's 100 degrees or more for very often....  Nor do I want snow every day either!  Guess I'm just a middle-of-the-road gal! 
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  • QOTD: I'd much rather be cold! 

    P.S. I'm a graduate now!  EDD 3/23/10

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  • I'm sittin pretty on CD 3..not much going on this early

    QOTD:  I'd rather be hot, I HHHATTTEE to be cold..maybe I should move..

  • I'm now waiting for a BFP.  I triggered yesterday.

    QOTD - As long as there is a pool or the beach, i'd take hot.  If there's no water to cool off in, i'd take the cold. 

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  • Please add me, I am waiting on a BFP

     

    On QOTD, I would rather be in the cold, its so romantic, fires w/ dh, and cuddling under the covers. Hot makes me irratible.

  • QOTD:  I would much rather be cold than freakishly hot!  I'll pack my bags and head to Alaska any day of the week :)
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  • QOTD: Heck yeah I'd rather be cold than hot considering my AC went out. I'm miserable and am willing to cut someone because of my moodiness.

    BTW: I am testing Sunday, might be a bit too early for me but we shall see. 

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