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ugh, what do I do?

SouthernBellelovesaYankeeSouthernBellelovesaYankee
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In regards to my "friends" situation..

Do I got to the same bar for girls night, pretend to have a good time, waste money on watered down drinks, and avoid the drama?

Do I go to the new bar, listen to the band, drink nice drinks with FI, enjoy myself, and cause loads of drama b/c my "friends" refused to go?

We barely go out, so I would like to try to enjoy myself with whatever I choose. Those biitches.

I'm really at a loss.

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Re: ugh, what do I do?

  • EmilyBowesEmilyBowes
    do what YOU want to do. life is too short to try to please everyone else. esp when you can't get out much. i feel for you.
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  • wifeypoohwifeypooh
    I think i missed the story on the "friends". However, you don't get a lot of time to yourself. Sounds like you should do whatever will make the most of your time where you will have a good time. Also, if you are air quoting the word friends, it sounds like you shouldn't waste your time with them, right?
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  • phishphoodphishphood
    Do what makes YOU happy.  Time out of the house is too valuable as a mommy to grin and bear it doing something you really don't want to do.  If they're really your friends, they'll understand; if not, then ::shrugs:: they weren't worth the sacrifice in the first place.
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  • Mrs.FishMrs.Fish
    I would go to the new bar. Like you said you barely get to go out so you might as well go somewhere you know you will enjoy better.
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  • SouthernBellelovesaYankeeSouthernBellelovesaYankee

    alrighty then, the new bar it is.

    (which would have been a kickass place to have a wedding reception!)

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  • EJS425EJS425

    The statement "..pretend to have a good time.." should answer your question.

    Go spend time with your FI and enjoy yourself .. eff the drama - you have a child now.. which for me, really put things into perspective over how lame and rediculous "friend" drama is ..

    these people need to grow up.

    ((I'm not really sure of the backstory.. somehow I missed it..? but this is my general opinon))

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  • blendedfammamablendedfammama member

    From the sounds of things you've already made up your mind and want reassurance.  And....after reading how your weeks been going, maybe time out alone with FI will be good for you too.  I know time out NOT with so called "friends" will be good for you anway so you don't have to "pretend to have a good time".

    Have fun!!!!

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  • kaylenpar1kaylenpar1 member
    Go to the new bar and eff what your "friends" think.  If they're not willing to try anything new then that's their bad.  I'm sure they'll get over it when it comes to the next going out night.  They should understand.  Would it be an option to pop into both places, or no?
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