Why is it? (jealous vent)

2006july15bride · July 2009

That each time I get AF I find out about 3 IRL pregnancies? Having lunch with a friend next Wed who I just found out is pg (successful IVF I'm very happy for her). Then found out old school friend is pg (she and her husband don't like kids so this really pisses me off!!!) And had lunch with friend today who was married in June....guess what....she's having TWINS!!!! I'm happy for her but all the same when will it be my turn....ya know Sad

fatima5968 · July 2009

I TOTALLY feel ya-arghh! What about us?? Hmm

bbjoys · July 2009

Wow, that is super annoying! I'm so sorry.

shell1016 · July 2009

I'm so sorry. I know you've been trying for such a long time. I really hope it happens for you soon.

ccbanana · July 2009

Last month I went to dinner with my very good friend, it was CD1 for me, and she ended up telling me she is pg. Was wonderful for her, but hard for me to hear.

Atalanta0214 · July 2009

I think we've all been there... Sorry it's rough right now but at least we're in the same boat around here? (Don't know if it's a consolation but still...)

2006july15bride · July 2009

bbjoys:
Wow, that is super annoying! I'm so sorry.

Thinking of your success story helps me through!

loloindiego · July 2009

I'm sorry

I know how you feel.. hang in there & remember it will be your turn one day. (Hopefully soon!)

eab3093 · July 2009

Your baby will be able to wear this Smile

2006july15bride · July 2009

eab3093:

Your baby will be able to wear this

That's too cute. I'm tempted to buy one and keep it in a special place...but then if it never happens...

loloindiego · July 2009

eab3093:

Your baby will be able to wear this

that's too cute! Where did you find that?

eab3093 · July 2009

It is so easy to feel down during this process. I feel exactly the same way. I have 6 good friends that are KU right now (and they all talk about how easy it was to get KU which makes it worse). Everywhere I go I am surrounded by PG people! I am happy for them, but sad in a selfish way for myself. We have to have faith that it will happen. I am so tempted to buy a onesie that says "My daddy is a golfer". I don't want to jinx myself though Crying

eab3093 · July 2009

loloindiego:
eab3093:

Your baby will be able to wear this

that's too cute! Where did you find that?

Isn't that the cutest thing? I love looking at this website:

https://clothing.cafepress.com/careers-&-professions_infant-bodysuits

2006july15bride · July 2009

eab3093:
It is so easy to feel down during this process. I feel exactly the same way. I have 6 good friends that are KU right now (and they all talk about how easy it was to get KU which makes it worse). Everywhere I go I am surrounded by PG people! I am happy for them, but sad in a selfish way for myself. We have to have faith that it will happen. I am so tempted to buy a onesie that says "My daddy is a golfer". I don't want to jinx myself though

Imagine how I feel....I'm 10 cycle past where you are Crying At this stage even dr.'s look at me with pity!

eab3093 · July 2009

2006july15bride:

eab3093:
It is so easy to feel down during this process. I feel exactly the same way. I have 6 good friends that are KU right now (and they all talk about how easy it was to get KU which makes it worse). Everywhere I go I am surrounded by PG people! I am happy for them, but sad in a selfish way for myself. We have to have faith that it will happen. I am so tempted to buy a onesie that says "My daddy is a golfer". I don't want to jinx myself though

Imagine how I feel....I'm 10 cycle past where you are At this stage even dr.'s look at me with pity!

I am a total basketcase every time AF arrives, but I honeslty cannot comprehend how you feel! You are so much farther along in the process. I have always been told and I continue to believe (or try to anyway) that "good things come to those who wait". I try not to let that phrase get to me negatively like "relax and it will happen when it's meant to happen" or "stop trying to make this a science project" or "You're trying too hard". MEH MEH MEH

2006july15bride · July 2009

eab3093:
2006july15bride:

eab3093:
It is so easy to feel down during this process. I feel exactly the same way. I have 6 good friends that are KU right now (and they all talk about how easy it was to get KU which makes it worse). Everywhere I go I am surrounded by PG people! I am happy for them, but sad in a selfish way for myself. We have to have faith that it will happen. I am so tempted to buy a onesie that says "My daddy is a golfer". I don't want to jinx myself though

Imagine how I feel....I'm 10 cycle past where you are At this stage even dr.'s look at me with pity!

I am a total basketcase every time AF arrives, but I honeslty cannot comprehend how you feel! You are so much farther along in the process. I have always been told and I continue to believe (or try to anyway) that "good things come to those who wait". I try not to let that phrase get to me negatively like "relax and it will happen when it's meant to happen" or "stop trying to make this a science project" or "You're trying too hard". MEH MEH MEH

my favorite is "go on vacation and drink!"

eab3093 · July 2009

2006july15bride:
eab3093:
2006july15bride:

eab3093:
It is so easy to feel down during this process. I feel exactly the same way. I have 6 good friends that are KU right now (and they all talk about how easy it was to get KU which makes it worse). Everywhere I go I am surrounded by PG people! I am happy for them, but sad in a selfish way for myself. We have to have faith that it will happen. I am so tempted to buy a onesie that says "My daddy is a golfer". I don't want to jinx myself though

Imagine how I feel....I'm 10 cycle past where you are At this stage even dr.'s look at me with pity!

I am a total basketcase every time AF arrives, but I honeslty cannot comprehend how you feel! You are so much farther along in the process. I have always been told and I continue to believe (or try to anyway) that "good things come to those who wait". I try not to let that phrase get to me negatively like "relax and it will happen when it's meant to happen" or "stop trying to make this a science project" or "You're trying too hard". MEH MEH MEH

my favorite is "go on vacation and drink!"

Oh, yeah... why not? Because every time you go on vacation you magically ovulate and alcohol has vital nutrients needed to make a healthy baby. We have been missing the boat all along. What have we been thinking?

mtendere · July 2009

Hang in there, July. How's that puppy of yours doing these days?

2006july15bride · July 2009

eab3093:
2006july15bride:
eab3093:
2006july15bride:

eab3093:
It is so easy to feel down during this process. I feel exactly the same way. I have 6 good friends that are KU right now (and they all talk about how easy it was to get KU which makes it worse). Everywhere I go I am surrounded by PG people! I am happy for them, but sad in a selfish way for myself. We have to have faith that it will happen. I am so tempted to buy a onesie that says "My daddy is a golfer". I don't want to jinx myself though

Imagine how I feel....I'm 10 cycle past where you are At this stage even dr.'s look at me with pity!

I am a total basketcase every time AF arrives, but I honeslty cannot comprehend how you feel! You are so much farther along in the process. I have always been told and I continue to believe (or try to anyway) that "good things come to those who wait". I try not to let that phrase get to me negatively like "relax and it will happen when it's meant to happen" or "stop trying to make this a science project" or "You're trying too hard". MEH MEH MEH

my favorite is "go on vacation and drink!"

Oh, yeah... why not? Because every time you go on vacation you magically ovulate and alcohol has vital nutrients needed to make a healthy baby. We have been missing the boat all along. What have we been thinking?

I like your sarcasm! Want a BFPB? Everyone on my roster gets KU right after they buddy me.

eab3093 · July 2009

Absolutely! I don't have a BFPB yet. I don't have a feeling that I will get KU anytime soon, though, so you may be stuck with me for a while...or if what your're telling me is true, I might magically get KU just from being your buddy. LOL

aidansmama~ · July 2009

softskate31:

In all seriousness -

It is because life isn't fair.

I hope you are able to come through this with grace and dignity and you will be a better mother for it because you will appreciate your gift that much more.

*hugs*

Ditto this. I think when we have to work and wait for something for so long it makes up appreciate our children MUCH more.

2006july15bride · July 2009

eab3093:

Absolutely! I don't have a BFPB yet. I don't have a feeling that I will get KU anytime soon, though, so you may be stuck with me for a while...or if what your're telling me is true, I might magically get KU just from being your buddy. LOL

Not only did my last buddy (who was on cycle 7) get KU, she is actually due on my birthday!!! I'm adding you to my siggy. Babydust to you!

Mrs. BZ · July 2009

July, I know how you feel. I have a friend that just announced she got KU and it was an oops. She was done having kids, she has 1 that's a teenager. She kept asking me when I was going to get KU, and poof, she's KU.

2006july15bride · July 2009

Mrs. BZ:
July, I know how you feel. I have a friend that just announced she got KU and it was an oops. She was done having kids, she has 1 that's a teenager. She kept asking me when I was going to get KU, and poof, she's KU.

What do you think of the Clomid? My friend is starting it. She thinks it will up her chances. Was thinking maybe I should try it.

eab3093 · July 2009

2006july15bride:
eab3093:

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?Absolutely! I don't have a BFPB yet. I don't have a feeling that I will get KU anytime soon, though,?so you may be stuck with me for a while...or if what your're telling me is true, I might magically get KU just from being your buddy. LOL
Not only did my last buddy (who was on cycle 7) get KU, she is actually due on my birthday!!!? I'm adding you to my siggy.? Babydust to you!

Lots of baby dust to you, too!!!!! I have also added you to my siggy...?

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