When are you or did you start the nursery?
We probably won't be working on it until after our ultrasound (21 weeks) and then I may wait a little longer but I don't know. I am pretty anxious to get started on it. I get nervous about buying anything as if I might jinx it, but I guess maybe after the anatomy scan I will feel a bit more relaxed and connected. I just worry about losing the baby and then having a whole room filled with baby stuff.
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Re: When are you starting the nursery?
You have to do what's best for you and what fits into your comfort level.
I'm a planner by nature, I planned my wedding 18 months in advance because I get anxious if I feel like I'm not prepared, so my nursery is almost done, I have it painted and the furniture in there where I want it but the final touches (wall decals etc) haven't been done yet.
There is no rush though if you feel like you want to wait, you have time.
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DS: 11-20-09
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We bought our crib furniture around 22 weeks. It takes 10-14 weeks to come in.
Then probably around 23 weeks we bought the bedding...I ended up finding something I like better this week so I ordered a new one this week and will be returning that one.
My husband started painting after we picked out the bedding.
I think that worrying about losing the baby and having tons of baby stuff is a really common concern- I know that it's occurred to me more than once- but DH and I started working on our nursery after the first trimester (not counting the cleaning out we did of the room during the first weeks of my pregnancy). We've made a lot of progress on it since and it's really relaxing for me to go in there and see that there's a lot that's already been done.
For some people, it would probably be more stressful to have it done early, but I like knowing that if my baby makes an early entrance, then I'll be prepared for him!
Well, I def understand your perspective. I was hesistant at first as well.
To answer your question, we have moved all of the clothes out of the room and now need to donate the furniture. I don't want to wait too late and be too tired to do anything. We got his bedding last week after the BIG U/S. I'm still trying to decide on a crib for him.
Not for a while yet. We'll probably order the furniture at around 25 weeks (late September), clear out the office furniture in early October and have the closet built, then start setting the room up in November (30-32 week or so).
I'm a planner and would love to get it done earlier but, since we are changing over our office, we have a lot to clear out and store. Plus, that room doesn't currently have a closet so we need time for the construction (and letting the dust settle).
big brothers 12.2009 and 02.2012
We are done! We started as soon as I made the leap to 2nd tri. All we had to do was paint and set up furniture and whatnot. I fell in love with a gender neutral bedding set, which works our well because we hope to reuse it for baby #2.... whenever that may be.
We started after the big U/S and are done... just waiting for the glider to be upholstered and come in.
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The baby will be in our room for the first months anyway, so even if she/he comes early, it won't be the end of the world if the room isn't totally done.
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DS - 03.15.08
DD2 - 12.03.09
DD3 - 3.28.11
we have the furniture picked out, but nothing has been ordered yet.
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Sept 2008 - Jan 2009: Clomid 100mg
Feb 2009: 200mg Clomid = BFP! on March 20, 2009 - It's a BOY!
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Feb 2010: Start TTC again, the old fashioned way
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July 2011: Unmedicated cycle = BFP! on August 29th, 2011
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