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3rd Trimester
NOT GOOD!
Ok I have to vent... I found out that my better half is still seeing his ex in secret...I am acting like I don't know anything but I do know! It pisses me off cause he just went to a different shift and he starts this crap... I have been sick for the past couple night and I go to the doctor to do just for a regular visit...I hope i can get my crap together and not explode! I wanna ask him so bad "WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?" I wanna confront this bi*ch SOOOO BAD! You know what even better...They have me on shut down for the rest of the week but he doesn't know and I don't think Im going to tell him...oh yes I can be whicked! 
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Re: NOT GOOD!
What do you mean they have you on "shutdown"?
Personally, I would confront him. You have a child on the way and it's time for him to step up and stop screwing around. Not saying anything to him about it isn't going to help the problem.
My questions/thoughts exactly.
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I agree with pp, why on Earth would you NOT confront him? What is the benefit of keeping quiet?
I would murder my DH.
You're not going to tell him that you're on "shut down"...Okay. Yes, that really IS wicked
How is that "getting back" at him for seeing his ex? I don't see how the 2 correlate at all...please explain!
This! Really... you are confusing me right now. It's not like you are carrying a puppy, you are about to have a BABY! You need to get your *** together!
You need to tell him what you feel about this whole thing - and get some things clarified (Like - "seeing her" - as in coffee and catching up...or actually dating and doling dreadful things? Very important distinction!) I wouldn't be thrilled with DH meeting any of his still-single exes, but sometimes it's a small world, and bumping into one happens. It depends what the interaction is - and if he hasn't chosen to tell you, you need to ask him why as soon as you can. Don't keep it bottled up!
sounds to me like you're thriving on the drama of the situation rather than handling things & dealing with them like an adult about to have a baby. Good luck with everything, hope it works out for ya.
My thoughts exactly
Funny how I've noticed a lot of the high drama posts lately (this one, the "my baby is ready at 34 weeks" girl) come from younger women.
Thanks for giving us a good name, girls. Y'all are awesome.
wife to joe 2.2.08. mama to noah 9.5.09.
After multiple m/c's, a MTHFR diagnosis and the Lord calling both of our hearts in the same direction, we're adopting!
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*sigh*
Oh dear God.
If he's cheating on you, he's not your better half.
Is this your baby's father?
If you heard this through the grapevine, I think it IS a good idea to get confirmation before you confront him, but I'd be as direct as possible about it after you get proof!
This...exactly!
This.
Yep...
I'm tired, I'm cranky, and frankly I don't care what this OP thinks of me so I'm just gonna say it..............
YOU'RE A FRIGGIN IDIOT
This exactly! I don't post much at all but some of these post that have been chuck-full of drama.
I'm late to the discussion. But 2 words for the OP.
GROW UP. If you honestly just found out that your SO is still "seeing" his ex, be the grown woman that you will need to be when your baby arrives and talk to your SO.